88 yr. old mother is in hospital...we (family) want her discharged to a skilled nursing home for rehab - occupational therapy for a couple of weeks before she goes back home alone.
(she is dehydrated - confused beyond belief). She doesn't feel heat - is outdoors on porch too much; forgets to turn on AC. She walks w/walker; can't cook (afraid of stove); can't remember to take her meds; can't remember to eat; can't hear; can't see; & has developed extreme paranoia since 7/1; she is convinced the aides that come in 2 x's/wk for 2 hrs. are stealing...we've checked everything - they are not (same aides for 10 months). She says they come in the night; take her to basement; they don't have faces; she adds on to the list of everything they have stolen -we have found everything my mom herself has hidden. she can't run her (same) tv remote; she can't use the phone correctly; doesn't know what day it is; leaves her frig/freezer open; she can't put 2 thoughts together, ie, she gets hungry but gets to kitchen; can't remember to look in refrig to get yogurt, etc. Will eat if we are there fixing, bringing food. Hates meals on wheels program.
Question is - we know she has 100 days of medicare treatment @rehab facility if she is goes there directly from hospital....how do we (family) insist she is not capable of being discharged directly home? We think a couple of weeks of Occ. therapy to get her back to 2 months ago would help tremendously. What are her rights? Whom do we talk with? Ombudsman? she has primary insurance as well as Medicare.
(she is dehydrated - confused beyond belief). She doesn't feel heat - is outdoors on porch too much; forgets to turn on AC. She walks w/walker; can't cook (afraid of stove); can't remember to take her meds; can't remember to eat; can't hear; can't see; & has developed extreme paranoia since 7/1; she is convinced the aides that come in 2 x's/wk for 2 hrs. are stealing...we've checked everything - they are not (same aides for 10 months). She says they come in the night; take her to basement; they don't have faces; she adds on to the list of everything they have stolen -we have found everything my mom herself has hidden. she can't run her (same) tv remote; she can't use the phone correctly; doesn't know what day it is; leaves her frig/freezer open; she can't put 2 thoughts together, ie, she gets hungry but gets to kitchen; can't remember to look in refrig to get yogurt, etc. Will eat if we are there fixing, bringing food. Hates meals on wheels program.
Question is - we know she has 100 days of medicare treatment @rehab facility if she is goes there directly from hospital....how do we (family) insist she is not capable of being discharged directly home? We think a couple of weeks of Occ. therapy to get her back to 2 months ago would help tremendously. What are her rights? Whom do we talk with? Ombudsman? she has primary insurance as well as Medicare.

