Just got off the Oasis med sailing and I felt bad forcing DH and son to wear slacks and a collar shirt.. in the MDR most people were wearing shorts and t shirts.. nothing fancy at all. Formal night had more dressers but also not everyone
I would like to do at least one formal night with the fam. We plan to dress up for that night. We will play it by ear the other nights, but I know my boys will want to go casual so we can eat in other restaurants. I don't care what others do but I am not going to a formal night dressed in shorts and a t-shirt.
And you know, I think that is the right mindset. I think most of us know that the dress code is not exactly strict, so you wear what you want and don't worry about what everyone else will think.