Oh wow! I had no idea this was such a hot topic. I don't mean to ruffle feathers. I can totally see 5 o 6 adults in a studio is way too much. However, I think some of us look at our time at Disney much differently.
While some families want to use the resort and relax watching tv while their kids are asleep or put to bed at 8pm, still other families just use the room strictly to sleep and everyone crashes out pretty hard. No laying around the room so space isn't as much of an issue.
In our family situation we are a family of 4. However, our special needs 4 yr old will *only* sleep between my husband and myself whenever we travel. Her service dog is always in a corner right beside the head of the bed, as he can alert should she have breathing issues. She is a teeny 22 lbs at 4 yrs (think size of 18 month old). I guess it doesn't matter how many bedrooms we have. Our last trip to DIS we stayed at POLY. We had 5 in the room (which is allowed). My husband and myself slept with our daughter (as always), my son, 6, slept on the chair with the ottoman and his blankets (his choice). We had an adult alone in a queen bed and still an open futon. So while that room was allowed 5, I could easily see our family fitting 7 in a pinch. While families with teens or more adults that would just be absurd.
I guess this goes back to us being accepting. Each family is different. I can use all the adults we can posibly fit into our room to help with my 2 very special children and the service dog, especially in the pool or at parks. Its nice to be able to fit an "extra" person so my husband and myself just get a chance to *breathe*. We often have extra children as we do foster care and host children from Africa here in teh US for Medical treatment. Oh to see their eyes sparkle when they have come from poverty in their home land and stand at the base of the castle! Its is truely an amazing time! Time that we would would not get to share with them if there weren't sometimes exceptions. (I can post pics of our trip in 06 where we took our host Daughter from Ghana to Disney with us..... AMAZNG TRIP! I should say it would be a huge improvement for her to sleep on carpet over just a dist floor in her home hut with no blankets)
I guess its good to hear there is some flexibility since we will be booking our first
DVC reservations very soon!!! Hopefully we will be able to sleep 5 and I can bring a extra set of hands, or an extra special little person that needs some TLC while healing their hearts and/or bodies.
Thanks for extra understanding and acceptance of the various situations!