In the end, they got to the airport. It wasn't the ideal situation, Disney had problems that day. But bad service?
I'm glad you at least acknowledge the bolded.
As I stated earlier, if there was a breakdown, or an accident, or the driver got sick, or a traffic jam, or who knows what else could happen....those events could have also caused the OP to get to the airport later than being super early. But because the OP heard from another driver that "their bus was never dispatched", then suddenly getting to the airport later than normal is a massive failure, dropping the ball, and bad service. Had the OP never heard this comment from that driver, and perhaps assumed the lateness was from all of the above mentioned possibilities, this thread might not exist. Then again... it is the DIS.
Here's my key... even if the OP didn't hear that comment, they KNEW the bus wasn't assigned to them. Let's review the timeline provided by the OP...
Pickup time assigned for 6:45.
OP shows up at 6:15 (ok, earlier than Disney says, but no problem).
6:40: 6:15 bus shows up. No room for anyone other than 6:15 passengers
7:00: Manager type finds international passengers and puts them in a cab. We have no idea what time their flight is or their assigned pickup.
7:00-7:35: OP's DH is told (upon request) the bus will be there 'soon'.
7:35: 7:15 bus shows up. Manages to get all guests on that bus.
Now, we know the driver of the 6:15 bus WAS driving the 6:15 bus since he could only take those passengers.
We don't know if the 7:15 driver made an announcement that he was the 7:15 or if the OP asked. I'm guessing one of the two happened, because if it WAS the bus dispatched for 6:45, there wouldn't be a reference to it being the 7:15 bus.
So, we have a 6:15 bus and a 7:15 bus. No bus at 6:45 (for WHATEVER reason). That's odd because the OP (and presumably other guests) were told their bus would be there at 6:45. THAT'S where my problem with this whole thing is. Disney told the OP (and other guests) a bus would be dispatched to pick them up. It either wasn't, or hit enough of a delay to not make it to the resort until at least 50 minutes after the scheduled time.
Now, I'm assuming the 6:45 driver, if experiencing some kind of extended delay, would have contacted Dispatch at SOME point during that 50+ minutes.
To me, Disney failed in one of two ways... either not dispatching a 6:45 bus, or, if one had been dispatched and experienced some kind of extended delay, let the guests know when they WOULD be picked up. Granted, everyone was able to get on the 7:15 bus. If Disney would have even been able to relay THAT to the guests, that would have given them some options... grab a snack, go to the bathroom, or, if their stress level was that high, arrange for other transportation.
Sure, presumably the OP knew there was going to be a 7:15 bus, but how would they know there was room for them?
I don't think it's unreasonable to expect Disney to communicate what their plans are once a decision has been reached.
I don't think it's wrong to let Disney know a guest was not satisfied on how something was handled.
If there was one single thing that I would mind the least in terms of waiting while at Disney...it would be leaving Disney. It's the other waits that I don't really like. (waiting for DME to get me there, waiting for my room to be available, waiting for dinner, waiting for a ride, waiting for a bus to the parks or back to the resort...........). All of those waits dig into my vacation. This wait did not. But it did cause some stress for a little while.
I agree with you. The difference is if you're waiting for a ride, you won't be stranded no matter how long you wait. If you're waiting for dinner, it's not like dinner is going to take off and leave you. If you're waiting for a bus back to the resort or parks, the resort & parks will still be there whenever a bus DOES show up. If a DME bus is late enough, you can miss your flight. Will Disney reimburse you for that? Nope.
Now, sure, Disney is supposed to arrange for other transportation. But I would understand the concern of people waiting... "did we fall through the cracks? Are we still in Disney's system? Do they know we're waiting out here?" I'm glad you have confidence that Disney will "come through" 100% of the time. Others of us know Disney is made up of humans and will fail and mistakes will be made. The size of the mistakes is what's unknown.