I know exactly what you are going through. We stayed at DxL and just fell in love. One of my favorite themes is the Old South and I think DxL does it up right. We loved everything about this place, the landscaping, the pool, the lobby, the rooms, the restaurant, and the food court. Maybe because it was our first time together as adults to go to WDW, but we thought we would never want to stay anywhere else. But then on the next trip we split between DxL and WL. OK. Now we have a new favorite. WL is AWESOME!!
The NEXT time we were taking all three children and needed to save some money. We were going to go offsite, but after one night I said forget it. I always said I would never want to stay at an Allstar resort. Didn't think I would like it. Well, compared to staying offsite, I would have taken anything Disney, so ASMovies is was!!
We were SO SURPRISED! CM's were great (my kids even got a balloon at check-in, never got that even at the lodge), mousekeeping did their specialty with the towels and my DD's stuffed animals just like at the other two resorts. Food court was just as good, just busier in the mornings. My kids loved the pool and the room was immaculate.
Now, keep in mind, this isn't DxL. The landscaping hasn't won any awards although it is neat and clean. But, come on, what child doesn't love a giant icon of Buzz and Woody!!?? We thought it was fun and the icons didn't get on my nerves as much as I thought they would

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We were saving a lot of money, too. My husband thinks that anytime we have the kids along, we should stay there (next trip is a surprise adult trip to WL). You can't beat the price for what you get, considering you are on Disney property.
I say give your DD her wish. Especially with two rooms and two bathrooms, you should be happy there.
