My DH (35) has SB. He has a very severe case of it and he still lives a very full life. He has gone through many surgeries (Herrington rods in his back to help straighten his back, he has a colonostomy, no continence control, shunt in his brain, etc), but he never lets it get him down because he has always had love & support, which is the most important thing you can give to your child. Always let them know that they can do anything, despite whatever disability they have.
My DH still drives his own van & goes to work everyday. He helps me out around the house as much as he can and he is an amazing husband & best friend.