I know it sounds funny, but it would have been better if my DH and I just got her like one chocolate rabbit, for example for Easter and 3 or 5 presents for Christmas instead of 20! Now she's 12, going on 13 and we have 2 other children together and it's too late to do less than we have in the past for her, even though we know that is what's best. She's been spoiled beyond belief and we blame ourselves (of course it's not "just" us, but you know what I mean). She's a good kid (although HOLY COW what a difference 12 is from when I was 12), but can seem very materialistic and admitted that she'll never where the diamond stud we gave her for her 6th grade graduation because they're too small - that kind of thing. She craves lots of presents and is very interested in "how many" she's getting, etc. Some might say that it has to do with the divorce of her parents - trust me - it doesn't. Just take my word for it, she's just plain spoiled! We sometimes jokingly will say "what's going to happen when she turns 16, she'll get TWO cars! Or what are we going to do when she get's married, give her two weddings!!!
I know exactly what you are talking about here. My little sister is 10 1/2 years younger than me (can we say accident??) and she is the same way. She turned 18 in Dec. and she runs all over my mom and dad. She gets what she wants when she wants and it drives me insane. You would think she was the parents and my parents were the children. She even has the nerve to yell at them when they buy things they want for themselves and tells them they should not be spending $$$$ on stupid stuff when they know they have to send her to college this fall.
I am on her rear constantly about her attitude and her mouth and while she simply will not talk to me or my dh this way she continues to talk to my parents this way. They hate she acts like this but they use the ol' "she's 18" excuse and they are afraid she will move out and not finish school....WHATEVER!!!!!
On the other hand......I admit I have spoiled my DD's to an extent I went today to get easter basket stuff and spent almost 60.00....I didn't buy candy though....I got dd4 ..the incredibles dvd, a stuffed bunny, putty, bath foam, and a few other things I can't remember.
Got dd11mths, a basket, stuffed bunny, outfit, socks, toy, sippy cup, tink sunglasses, jelly shoes.
I don't think it was too bad...
