TheDisneyGirl02
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Okay maybe I dont bring "work" home but I am a psychiatric nurse and heres what I bring home
hearing the awful stories of some of our patients- the abuse that has been done to them and that some of them have done to others. I have nursed paedophiles and victims of child sex abuse, murderers and the suicidal, drug addicts and alcoholics, the psychotic and sociopaths.
I have been afraid for my safety, been punched, pulled around by the hair, am quite sure I would have been at least seriously injured by one of my most disturbed patients had I not seen it coming seconds ahead of time and got out the door right before she got me. I have tried to coax a 12 yr old out from under a table as he is holding a knife to his wrist. I have nursed the dying and taken care of them after they have passed. At the moment I am working in a unit that is facing imminent closure forcing 21 scared elderly people to move out of the home they have lived in for most of their adult lives.
Those kind of things tend to stick in your head.
This sounds like what happens to my sister at her job - she's a teacher at an inner-city school. Let's see, in the last couple of years she has also be threatened (one of her students threatened to kill her), spit on, hit, stomped on (she had had ACL reconstruction surgery less than 3 months before this incident happened and she was afraid the student re-tore her graft), pinched, and stabbed with a pencil. Want to know what happened to the kid who did this to her? Nothing - nothing at all. Thankfully he transfered to a different school so I no longer have to worry about her everyday.
By no means could I handle your job but some of the same things you deal with on a day to day basis teachers also deal with.
I have always told my dad and sister (both of them are teachers) that I would rather hang myself upside down by my toenails than become a teacher. When I read threads such as this one, that completely reinforces that fact.
As far as time is money, honey - if my dad got paid for the number of hours he actually works my parents wouldn't still be living in their starter home they bought 35 years ago. Are they happy there? Yes. Does my dad still enjoy teaching - yes. Has he helped hundreds of kids over the years - absolutely. It's amazing the impact he has made on so many people's lives.