So I'm looking into disney alternatives and would love to hear people's suggestions and advice for a family of 6 regarding universal. Kid ages would range 3-8. I've been part of a Disney family since I was 4 but things are getting so different now.
I can speak mostly to 3 year olds. On our last trip with a 3 year old he rode:
Pteradon flyers (all morning long)
Woody Woodpecker's nuthouse coaster (I think only once, but I don't remember why)
Kang and Kodo's Twirl and Hurl (dumbo, only a few times because it is hot and shadeless)
Hogwarts Express (both ways)
Storm force Aceleratron (over and over)
One Fish, Two Fish (until we we were all soaked)
Cat in the Hat and the Seuss Trolley (not really a fan of either)
Carouseusel (multiple rides)
Flight of the Hippogriff (over and over again)
There's more he could have gone on, but there wasn't enough group interest. At 4 he'll be 42" and that opens a bunch more rides. We spent 5 days, and he never expressed frustration over a lack of rides or missing Disney.
We had a great time, but we're pretty willing to split up. So typically someone would ride Pteradon flyers or Hippogriff with him while the bigger kids did Hagrid's. He also needed more naps and breaks, so we used those times for big-kid or adult choice rides. We never used child swap, and it was June 2020, so we didn't need express pass, but we are planning express pass for this summer.