Life without a birth certificate (long)

LadyAurora

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I would like to complain a little.
My husband doesn't have a birth certificate. He was born at home, as opposed to a hospital, and his mother never got one. Don't ask me how he went so many years without one...he didn't even know he didn't have one until right before we got married! We were at the courthouse picking up the marriage license and decided to get a copy to take with us on our honeymoon. Luckily, we only went to the Bahamas, because we then found out there was no birth certificate on file for hubby. The lady at the courthouse gave us a pile of forms to fill out for a "Delayed Record of Birth." This looked like a lot of hard work, including producing school records from grade school, etc. DH promptly put it out of his mind. That was 6 years ago.
Fast forward to when we moved to FL in March. We went to get our new drivers' licenses, only to be told that IL licenses are not considered proof of citizenship in FL, that we would have to provide birth certificates or passports. No DL for hubby! That means he can't get a new license plate, either. The lady at one courthouse down here said he can probably get a passport, if he could prove in other ways who he was.
Through extreme acts of nagging, and basically me doing the work, he now has a certified, official letter from Lake Co, IL saying he has no birth certificate, the souvenier B.C. from the hospital where he was taken after birth, an affadavit from his mother that he was born, and an affadavit from his older sister that she remembers him being born. He still can't get a license! Last week he got a ticket from a cop that HAD been planning to give him a warning, because the cop didn't believe he couldn't get a FL license.
What a pain! Why can't states be reciprocal? They say they had to change because of 9/11.
OK, that's my complaint. Thanks for letting me vent.
Has anyone else had a problem like this?
 
This looked like a lot of hard work, including producing school records from grade school, etc. DH promptly put it out of his mind. That was 6 years ago.

a little work then would have made life much easier now...how old is he, and where does he work..my employer requires a birth certificate for employment...

does he have a social security number..??
 
Yes, he has a social security number. He works in construction, and all his jobs have only required driver's licenses. Luckily his job here took his IL license! I have no idea how he ever got his first one, but that was a while ago. He's almost 39.
When I think how easily this could have been avoided 39 years ago, I just want to kick something! But, there's nothing to do about that now...and it's not something I can do for him. Oh, well. He'll have to take action eventually. Hopefully, he has enough documentation to get a passport, although it seems strange that it would be easier to get a passport than a driver's license. I guess that's why I don't work for the government.
 
do you have any family or friends in IL that could help...

you should still be able to do this....The lady at the courthouse gave us a pile of forms to fill out for a "Delayed Record of Birth." This looked like a lot of hard work, including producing school records from grade school, etc..
 

My mothers boyfriend doesn't have one either. He's 60 now I believe (or 61), born at home and never filed for a birth certificate. He received a SS number when he joined the service back in the 60's and, between the SS number and military records he's never had a problem until they wanted to take a cruise. Well no birth certificate, no cruise.
 
Wow! How did he ever go through school? We are required to have a copy of their birth certificate when we register kids for school.

Good luck in getting everything straightened out!

Jill
 
You can't even play sports in our township without a birth certificate as a kid
the recent passport changes starting to take place I highly doubt he will get one of those either
Can't you actually go to jail for driving without a license if he gets caught again???
why take the chance - do the paperwork.

don't know his age but he will need it I believe to apply for social security maybe retirement too.
 


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