Jann, I fear that you may be taking things a little too personally. If we dump on Canon, it doesn't mean that we're dumping on Canon users. Furthermore, I don't think it's rude to comment on camera equipment - what would be the point of someone asking, then, if they'll only hear positives?
the pro reviews i've read totally disagree with you
DPReview, XT: "New kit lens disappointing at telephoto with smaller apertures"
DPReview, XTi: "Kit lens disappointing, better to buy body only and spend more on a good lens" (along with criticisms of body ergonomics)
Megapixel, XTi: "Photos captured at the wide angle end of the zoom and with a wide aperture are visibly soft, and more uniform sharpness is obtained when the lens is stopped down to f8. Likewise, a chromatic aberration is also noticeable when there are strong contrasts, and is more pronounced in the corners of the frame." (they go on to state that the "L" lenses are much better - big surprise there, eh?) The summary states: "Kit lens not up to the camera's capabilities."
DCResource, XT: "Kit lens is disappointing at smaller apertures"
DCResource, XTi: "If you get the lens kit you'll also get Canon's second generation 18 - 55 mm EF-S lens in the box. I used this lens back when I reviewed the Rebel XT, and it's not the greatest -- it tends to get soft at smaller apertures. It's a decent everyday lens, but there are better lenses out there -- there's a reason why this thing costs $100."
Imaging Resource had terrible results from the kit lens but they admit that it was worse than they'd seen elsewhere and it may have been not working properly.
The XT lens didn't even come with a hood - I'm not sure about the XTi one. One non-IQ benefit of the Pentax kit lens is that the front element doesn't rotate during focusing, unlike the Canon and Nikon ones, which makes it suitable for use with a circular polarizer.
For comparison:
Megapixel, K100D: "This is a lens that offers good sharpness at all focal lengths, and which has practically no barrel distortion at the wide angle end, and no pincushion distortion at the telephoto end. Likewise, images captured with this lens reveal no chromatic aberration at any point in the focal length range. A small amount of vignetting, however, can be detected in some wide angle shots when using a wide aperture."
Imaging Resource on the K100D: "Unlike some kit lenses, the lens on this camera is appears (sic) of decent quality."
Imaging Resource, K10D: "...the bundled 18-55mm lens is built very nicely, made of metal, and quite handsome. Its performance is decent, just a little above most kit lenses..."
DPReview did not list the kit lens as a negative and I couldn't find a mention of it inside and I have to go run an errand so can't spend much more time.
Anyway, Jann, we all love you and I promise that we're not trying to beat up on you!

However, the Canon kit lens
is singled out by many as being a real weak point of the Rebel series. And the Pentax 18-5mm kit lens is certainly no top-shelf lens either but does not get the negative marks that the Canon does.