Disagree. CMs are not to help you, that is clearly their instructions.
I'm not sure you understand what I said. Let me be more clear.
CMs are not supposed to touch guests for any reason. They're not supposed to help you at all because of liability. They can get in trouble for doing so.
Most CMs will offer a hand despite this, because CMs are also human beings, not robot drones.
When a nice person sees somebody off-balance who needs a steadying hand, in that moment the human being usually overrides the Disney Policy. It's instinctive.
Should they? No, it's against policy. Do they do it anyway? Yes. The type of person who loves Disney enough to be a CM is rarely able to stand impassively and watch a guest struggle when all that's needed is a steadying hand.
I'm genuinely not certain why you "disagree" with this?
I'm NOT saying that guests should depend on this. If you're disabled or especially have balance issues you need to be keenly aware that if you need help and a CM instinctively reaches out, it could get them in trouble, possibly even fired. That's why I don't do rides where I know or even suspectI'll need help. But I will go on rides where I'm sure it'll be fine, because I've never had a problem with that ride before.
On occasion, it turns out I was wrong and I did wobble getting on or off a ride car. I'm also only human. We all are. At the instant I lose my balance, the CM isn't thinking "I could get fired, I should let her fall" and I'm not thinking "they could get fired, I shouldn't take their hand" -- it's a split second when they offer me a hand and I take it, steady myself, and let go.
I'm not suggesting that people with balance issues should go around doing rides they're uncertain about and assume a CM will step in if anything happens. I was just replying to someone who stated that most CMs will offer a hand regardless of policy. Yeah, they will. That's why we as guests have a responsibility to ensure a CM's kindness doesn't get them into trouble.