way didn't you ever get a license?trappednabox said:my aunts and uncles were very trusting with their cars when I was younger
the 1st time I ever drove I think I was 11, It was just around the block and my uncle was in the car with me
Lyn5 said:way didn't you ever get a license?
I don't know I was gonna get it when I got the ticket in 99, but then I forgot all about it 
98/99 were very bad years for me. I had soooooo much going on that that ticket was the last thing on my mind.
got ittrappednabox said:
Lyn5 said:got it
Lyn5 said:OMG, I just saw this smilie and it is so funny
I LOVE IT!!! 
Lyn5 said:He said it went really well and that it seemed very positive overall. I guess it will be one month more before anything is decided...and it guess it seems that they would expect him to travel 5 days a week for at least the first year
So, I asked if he would take it if it was 5 days a week and he said he would if the money was right
I told him how I felt...that I want him to enjoy going to work each day (I know how it is to hate each morning having to go to work)...but it just doesn't seem worth it...I mean honestly, if we have enough for our needs and some of our wants, I honestly don't think more money would bring us more happiness...If it was only two of us, I don't think it would matter...but with 2 kids we need to think of our family first...I don't know, I told him I don't think we could continue our lifestyle as it is and have him gone the entire week and then exhausted on the weekends...it just isn't reasonable...not too mention I would be doing everything alone all week and I work a little far from our home and where the kids go to school.
Plus, I feel like it keeps snowballing. At first he would be gone 2 or 3 days...then it was 3 or 4 and now 5....next thing I know I will be living here and he will be living there
It is so heartbreaking...the whole thing sucks. I want him to be happy....but I want the kids and I to be happy too!
you're right...I was chatting about it a little with my boss and I realized I think for DH it isn't too much about the money...I think he wants the job and he is trying to justify ways it is worth it...he will be home late tonight...so I think when we have some alone time we will talk more about itMom2Ashli said:
trappednabox said:I promise I'm a really good driver! I can even drive a stick
- in Florida that is still against the law lady. One must hold a little card thingy with an ugly picture on it to be able to drive a car. 
- although there are a billion people who hold that neat little card thingy with the ugly picture that should not be behind the wheel of a car.
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