ladies from work are going out for dinner tomorrow night

[imgoingtodisney]

and there is no way I feel like going. Think Im just going to bring in my grab and take off as soon as my work day is over. Didnt go last year either. The town doesnt do anything for Christmas for the town workers (you know tax money) so we take ourselves out for dinner. Just dont feel like going and being festive.
Hopefully in the next 2wks my spirits will get back up

 

[ratsrule]

Originally posted by imgoingtodisney
The town doesnt do anything for Christmas for the town workers (you know tax money) so we take ourselves out for dinner.

WELCOME to what most of us go through anyway.
I for one do not have a Christmas dinner, or anything like that. Do I complain?

NO I am glad I have a job.

































BTW I am self employed

 

[Tony-NJ]

go. It may help. We used to do this in a Bank that I worked at years ago. We would all go out on our own, it was actually fun.

mental note - never work for ratsrule

BTW I am self employed

 

[gepetto]

When you keep saying "no" don't be surprised if they stop inviting you to go anywhere.

 

[Antonia]

Go and instead of thinking about the fact that you all are treating yourselves to dinner rather than your employer paying, concentrate on the fellowship with your co-workers.
It seems you are really down and out about how bad things are for yourself. The best cure for that is to go out and see people who are worse off than you. I am a nurse. Everyday that I work, I feel so fortunate from the contact I have with people. I help them, but in return I am helped to realize all the blessings that I have. This is a great time of year to think about what you can do for others to add a bright spot to their lives. Visit a nursing home and read to elderly patients that may have no one. Volunteer to visit a children's hospital or children's home and play games with some kids, etc. Fix meals at a homeless shelter or a shelter for abused women. Volunteer to help some elderly people from your church with meals over the holidays. Anything that helps you think about what you can do for others will help you realize how fortunate you are. Try it. I dare say it works wonders.

 

[Eeyore2U]

You know, it seems like nothing is going to make you happy. Only you can do that. Not DCL, not WDW, not work or DH or DS, 10.5. If you want to be miserable, be miserable. But you seem to be bringing many of down and this isn't a pity party. Cheer up. Like others have said, you don't have as bad as you think.

 

[SeaSpray]

Originally posted by Eeyore2U
You know, it seems like nothing is going to make you happy. Only you can do that. Not DCL, not WDW, not work or DH or DS, 10.5. If you want to be miserable, be miserable. But you seem to be bringing many of down and this isn't a pity party. Cheer up. Like others have said, you don't have as bad as you think.

And what's it going to take to make YOU happy, mitch? Why don't YOU "cheer up"??? All you've been doing is zeroing in on IGTD's negative posts. I see at least 4 other threads here by her, on the CB board, that are quite positive, and gee, your comments are nowhere to be found on those threads. Why not? You sure were quick enough to click on her negative threads, weren't you?

If you don't like her complaints, then DON'T CLICK ON HER THREADS. DUH, is that hard to understand??????? Apparently you enjoy joining in with the other freaks on this board who like to put people who are already down, down even further. Do I think IGTD should be airing her problems on a Disney board? Of course not, but she is getting basically what she deserves by reading the responses from people like you. I guess you two perform a service for each other, kind of like host/parasite.

 

[Eeyore2U]

Originally posted by SeaSpray
And what's it going to take to make YOU happy, mitch? Why don't YOU "cheer up"??? All you've been doing is zeroing in on IGTD's negative posts. I see at least 4 other threads here by her, on the CB board, that are quite positive, and gee, your comments are nowhere to be found on those threads. Why not? You sure were quick enough to click on her negative threads, weren't you?

If you don't like her complaints, then DON'T CLICK ON HER THREADS. DUH, is that hard to understand??????? Apparently you enjoy joining in with the other freaks on this board who like to put people who are already down, down even further. Do I think IGTD should be airing her problems on a Disney board? Of course not, but she is getting basically what she deserves by reading the responses from people like you. I guess you two perform a service for each other, kind of like host/parasite.

Anything you would like to add to your diatribe?

If you feel I have attacked take it to a mod. If you don't like what I post put me on your ignore list. Do you want to make this personal? Go for it.

Aren't message boards point counter point? At least this one wasn't sone with alias.

 

[Eeyore2U]

Originally posted by CindysFriend
hey dweeb... oh excuse me, I mean... Mitch? I've said what I had to say. Unlike you, I won't drag it out in post after post after post...

As for me, this is the ONLY username I have here, so I don't know what alias you were referring to.

Point, counterpoint? That's what the debate board is for.

"Do you want to make this personal? Go for it." ROFL Are you daring me? Are you double-daring me? Are you going to double-dog dare me? Go grow up...

Are you stalking me, lol!!!!!

 

[WillyJ]

Look, we went though this kind of crap a week ago, and we're not going to do it again. . .

I'mgoingtodisney, we all know your sad, we all know your disapointed. . . and we also know there are those who are irritated/offended by your attitude and constant posting about it.. .

Both points have been made adnaseum. . this thread is now locked, and anyothers like it that are started will be too. . enough is enough. .