MY DD just graduated Kindergarten and she received a mix of things. Please keep in mind that my DNiece just graduated high school the week before, so everyone felt they needed to get my DD gifts as well. She received many cards, 13 in all. She received $20 from my parents and the rest were $10 each from my aunts and uncles and her aunt and uncle on my side. I personally took her to the Beauty and the Beast traveling musical when it was here. Now my ex-dh's family didn't even send a card or anything. My exDH also took her to the movie of her choice and out to eat the celebrate. I think she enjoyed the experience much more, but if doing something with him is not an option, kids that age love to go to the store and pick out there own toys, so a gift card or a little money like $10 would be nice.