I don't think it is bad for our nation that people 'bash' the president. I think we are blessed that we are able to speak freely. And I am not concerned that it has some negative ripple affect with other nations because I really feel they will find reason to fault us anyways.
One thing that Bicker mentioned sticks out to me though:
Clinton violated our social mores by breaking his vow of fidelity to his wife. That earned him the disrespect he received.
You are probably right in your reasoning of why many people lost respect for him. I, personally, didn't lose respect for him because he 'cheated', honestly...it's not a HUGE shock when men in powerful positions have extramarital affairs. Doesn't make it right, but it's not a shocker to me. IMO, that is between him and his wife (and family, if they are affected).
What bothered me about the entire mess is how he handled it. I would have had more respect if he had just said, "My private life is my business, it has nothing to do with my ability to lead this nation and I will not discuss it publicly out of respect for my family. I will answer all relevant questions asked of me in a court setting only. I will not discuss it otherwise."
Instead he lied directly to the nation and then fessed when he had no choice. That is what made me lose respect. IMO, when it comes to private issues, the president needs to just let 'em talk all they want, but do not engage in the discussion...it only makes things worse and makes the subject seem legitimately relevant. I always wondered if it was his decision or if his advisors suggested that approach.
It's more impirtant to me that the president respect the 'office' than the average citizen.
Sorry to go off topic, your post just made me think of it.