Just the two of us- WDW May 09 countdown on! **UPDATE Trying to change plans AGAIN!**

[kgle]

omg im laughing so hard my stomach hurts. ahahahahahhahahha


Although WHEN and IF I ever get married I totally would do it at WDW. And you guys can totally be my bridesmaids! lol

Haha he would kill me if he saw all this

 

[wlwilliams9]

I always tell Mike that we should renew our vows at the Wedding Pavilion at Disney! Maybe for our 20th anniversary!

 

[BridetobeDisney]

Oh wow!!! Awesome!! And how cool is it that they like Disney? It's meant to be!! LOL

I'm going to make a tshirt just because you said that. LOL

Oh, my MIL has been a total bi#@h this week. On wednesday I brought him over to their house. I was helping FIL get the carseat out and MIL had Tyson. I look up from the car and Tyson is standing on the opposite side of MIL's SUV while she is all the way in the car cleaning it out. We were in their driveway. Now he's not even 2 yet and he doesn't know not to run in the road. My head about exploded I was so mad. But I just told her he will run in the road and she said no he won't he never has before. I was so took back when she said that. A baby can do one thing this way 100 times and then do something unexpected on 101. You can't trust him. I should have took him home but I got the carseat in their car and kissed Tyson then cried all the way home. I called her about 20 minutes later and told her I was so mad and she told me that I'll realize by the second child that they don't break. I'm just a first time mom. Um actually I've worked in child care for 10 years, thank you very much!!!! And a car will break him very easy!!!

So then we go over Saturday for maybe 30 minutes. She was pushing him around in his little beep beep car. He was leaning to the side looking at the wheels. She told him to sit up. He didn't do it. She stopped at the doorway and told him to get up twice. He didn't do it so she rammed his head into the side of the door. He started crying and rubbing his head. She didn't even acknowledge him crying and her 13 year old told her he hit his head(she hit it though not him) She says well you just drive him around and hands over the car to FIL and walks in the kitchen. When I asked Tyson if he was ok she said oh he's fine.

I hate her. I've decided he can't go over there without us being there too and I've also decided he's not going to 2K at her preschool. First because it's 100 dollars a month and I'm a SAHM so that's money wasted. Second, I only have one more year as a SAHM before I finish my masters and begin a full time job. Why should I give in to her when I don't want him to go? I think I'll post this on my PTR.

Edited to add: Tyson was on the left hand side of the SUV. MIL was on the right hand side all the way in the car.

 

[kgle]

Brandy- I read your thread on the family board and I have to say, I think you have it handled now! I meant to reply sooner but I was so busy today I hope things go over well tomorrow with the MIL!


Ok...I know you guys are probably bored to death with me talking about this...but I am getting so confused. M invited us over tonight for a little bit and it was fun. He and Rylan played and it was so cute. He is so good with him. He was affectionate with me while we were over there, too. Well we left because Rylan wanted to go home. On the way, he fell asleep. I called M when I got home to let him know I made it okay and ended up going back over there to hang out alone.

I didn't want to push the issue but it was driving me nuts and I had to ask him. I was so confused about where we stood. I asked him...and told him he was a really confusing person. He apologized and said that he wasn't trying to be confusing. But (and this is a good thing) his mind totally wasn't on his health which is awesome. He really likes me and really likes spending time with me; I'm "awesome". He said again he wants to take things slow (snail slow he said). He said regardless of what happens and if things don't work out romantically he still wants me in his life.

Guys W.T.F. That's all I have to say. I have never met someone so undecisive in my life. He calls me all the time, constantly tells me about how he thinks of me all the time at work and home, calls me "babe", invites us over, plays with my son, takes me out, introduces me to his parents, talks about the "future" (as in school, not marriage!), etc but he wants to take things "snail slow". Once again I am sorry to keep writing about this...but I really don't have many others to talk to about this. I refuse to keep pushing the issue with him because I know it will push him away but its driving me nuts as to what the hell we are and where we stand. I don't need him to be my "boyfriend" but at least tell me if we are seeing each other!

Wendy- I emailed you but I will say it here too in case I emailed the wrong person! I told him tonight. He was talking about being "damaged goods" and having to tell someone that he had a lifelong condition. I about lost it and broke down (cried) and told him. It took me FOREVER. He was okay with it and totally understood. He said it isn't a big deal and its not my fault, that we just have to be careful if anything leads to that but neither of us are looking to rush into that. So that's a good thing...

 

[wlwilliams9]

I got your email! I'm sooo happy he understood and now you can move forward...slowly! Honestly, it sounds like he REALLY likes you and wants to spend time with you and Rylan. Like I said before, I think his brain is telling him to take it slow, but his heart is telling him to go for it! Guys are crazy, they never know what they want! I'd say just go with the flow, but I know it's not that easy. Some dudes never want to label relationships, but you are obviously seeing each other and the fact that he said he deleted his match.com profile leads me to believe that you are dating exclusively!

 

[Villainess]

I agree - I think he is very much into you, but I would caution how much time he spends with Rylan. Maybe that's me and my issue with not even considering dating along w/ the absolute fear of being betrayed again - my own issues to work out and clearly showoing I am not ready to date.

Hey Wendy, want to counsel me too?

 

[kgle]

I agree - I think he is very much into you, but I would caution how much time he spends with Rylan. Maybe that's me and my issue with not even considering dating along w/ the absolute fear of being betrayed again - my own issues to work out and clearly showoing I am not ready to date.

Hey Wendy, want to counsel me too?

I am usually very careful with who meets Rylan and who doesn't and with him...I just felt like it was the right thing to do. I think either way he will end up being a part of Rylan's life even if we don't work out. But I am trying to limit the time they spend together for now



And I have had absolutely non contact with him at all today...he has not texted or emailed me at all. The last time this happened...I got that "friends" email from him.

 

[Disneyfan71]

I hope things work out between you two!!! If you need to talk, PM me!!

 

[bertegirl]

Can Jenny send your son a little package...she made up some for 3 little ones on the dis. I just need to get the parents ok and addresses? She is so excited to meet everyone at AK.

 

[kgle]

He called me around 5. Said he left his phone at home today. He was going to lay down and take a nap as he had a migraine but said he needed to talk to me tonight. I asked if everything was okay and he said yes, it was nothing bad and not to worry...don't know what that is supposed to mean. He said he would call later but I don't know if he will...

 

[kgle]

Can Jenny send your son a little package...she made up some for 3 little ones on the dis. I just need to get the parents ok and addresses? She is so excited to meet everyone at AK.

Sure! I will PM you my address

 

[wlwilliams9]

He called me around 5. Said he left his phone at home today. He was going to lay down and take a nap as he had a migraine but said he needed to talk to me tonight. I asked if everything was okay and he said yes, it was nothing bad and not to worry...don't know what that is supposed to mean. He said he would call later but I don't know if he will...

Ooooo! The suspense! I can't believe he's leaving us all hangin'!!

 

[kgle]

Ooooo! The suspense! I can't believe he's leaving us all hangin'!!

Well you knowing how big of a deal last night was...

He said he had a lot to think about today.

But all I can think of is how can it be good news that he needs to talk to me! Its nothing bad...don't worry...well then why couldn't he have told me then. Its driving me insane. I don't know how it could be anything other than bad...I think I may go to bed early tonight...I probably won't get any sleep.

 

[Villainess]

I am usually very careful with who meets Rylan and who doesn't and with him...I just felt like it was the right thing to do. I think either way he will end up being a part of Rylan's life even if we don't work out. But I am trying to limit the time they spend together for now



And I have had absolutely non contact with him at all today...he has not texted or emailed me at all. The last time this happened...I got that "friends" email from him.

Ooooo! The suspense! I can't believe he's leaving us all hangin'!!

I know! I want to know!!!!!

 

[wlwilliams9]

Well you knowing how big of a deal last night was...

He said he had a lot to think about today.

But all I can think of is how can it be good news that he needs to talk to me! Its nothing bad...don't worry...well then why couldn't he have told me then. Its driving me insane. I don't know how it could be anything other than bad...I think I may go to bed early tonight...I probably won't get any sleep.

Isn't it funny how we always think the worst in these situations. I think since he's taking it "slow", he's gonna ask you and Rylan to move in with him. Next, he's gonna go to Disney with you and ask you to marry him in front of the castle. Finally, you will marry at the Wedding Pavilion on the last day of your trip and live happily ever after!

 

[kgle]

Isn't it funny how we always think the worst in these situations. I think since he's taking it "slow", he's gonna ask you and Rylan to move in with him. Next, he's gonna go to Disney with you and ask you to marry him in front of the castle. Finally, you will marry at the Wedding Pavilion on the last day of your trip and live happily ever after!

I wish I could think that positively hah.

I think his idea of "not bad news" is just what he said last night and that he wants me in his life but he doesn't think he can deal with the "issue"... blah. THIS is why I hate dating.

 

[troobabiee7]

Hey! I PMed you but figured I'd write here too. Just be sure to take things slow. I've been following along but I really don't know the whole situation with the issues you keep talking about. Either way, if a guy wants to be with you, he'll find a way regardless of whatever it is he's dealing with. There won't be excuses or games or any of that BS to deal with. Don't let anyone string you along, especially when someone as important as your son is involved. Just be careful and do what makes you happy. Best of luck!

 

[wlwilliams9]

Hey! I PMed you but figured I'd write here too. Just be sure to take things slow. I've been following along but I really don't know the whole situation with the issues you keep talking about. Either way, if a guy wants to be with you, he'll find a way regardless of whatever it is he's dealing with. There won't be excuses or games or any of that BS to deal with. Don't let anyone string you along, especially when someone as important as your son is involved. Just be careful and do what makes you happy. Best of luck!

DITTO!!!

 

[bertegirl]

DITTO!!!

Follow the leader...I agree, too!

Just follow your heart with your head as my grandma says!

 

[bertegirl]

Isn't it funny how we always think the worst in these situations. I think since he's taking it "slow", he's gonna ask you and Rylan to move in with him. Next, he's gonna go to Disney with you and ask you to marry him in front of the castle. Finally, you will marry at the Wedding Pavilion on the last day of your trip and live happily ever after!

No way...you have to have a wedding at another time and all your dis friends can come and attend and help you plan your dream wedding! Hey, I need an excuse to go again!!!