Has anyone had their child undergo a neuropsychological assessment? Can you explain the process and what I should expect? It sounds like we will be there all day after talking to the intake coordinator.
DS8 has struggled in school with writing and comleting assignments. His teachers have told us he appears to be very bright and has exceptional verbal skills. He is very quick with answering math facts verbally yet fails the written timed tests. DS also appears to be immature for his age and still does not have good fine motor skills. He has problems with attention, organization, completing work on time, etc. Homework time is a battle every night.
We have known about these problems for over a year. However, DH has been completely against getting him evaluated as he does not want him labeled. DH feels it is just a matter of immaturity and that he will grow out of it. I don't agree as things have gotten worse.
This year started out OK but is now going downhill. DS has been having major meltdowns at school and his sporting events. He uses the fight or flight response and has tried to run away in several instances which was very alarming when it happened at school last month. He also got in a fight at school yesterday. He gets easily upset about losing games, perceived injustices, or he tends to misinterpret someone's intentions. When he is having a meltdown, there is no reasoning with him. He calls himself stupid, hits himself, etc. Or he goes into a rage and wants to destroy things in his room, etc. It totally breaks my heart. I put my foot down with DH and scheduled the evaluation.
This situation has been extremely stressful. I feel like I've failed as a parent. Any suggestions or advice would be appreciated. Thanks for listening.
DS8 has struggled in school with writing and comleting assignments. His teachers have told us he appears to be very bright and has exceptional verbal skills. He is very quick with answering math facts verbally yet fails the written timed tests. DS also appears to be immature for his age and still does not have good fine motor skills. He has problems with attention, organization, completing work on time, etc. Homework time is a battle every night.
We have known about these problems for over a year. However, DH has been completely against getting him evaluated as he does not want him labeled. DH feels it is just a matter of immaturity and that he will grow out of it. I don't agree as things have gotten worse.
This year started out OK but is now going downhill. DS has been having major meltdowns at school and his sporting events. He uses the fight or flight response and has tried to run away in several instances which was very alarming when it happened at school last month. He also got in a fight at school yesterday. He gets easily upset about losing games, perceived injustices, or he tends to misinterpret someone's intentions. When he is having a meltdown, there is no reasoning with him. He calls himself stupid, hits himself, etc. Or he goes into a rage and wants to destroy things in his room, etc. It totally breaks my heart. I put my foot down with DH and scheduled the evaluation.
This situation has been extremely stressful. I feel like I've failed as a parent. Any suggestions or advice would be appreciated. Thanks for listening.