I am so sorry for your loss. I do want to state that I used to work for Continental and they do have a bereavement policy. I am sad that you did not get better treatment from them. I would write a letter of complaint.
I am sorry for your loss. A similar thing happened to us in July 2003. The stress of trying to get back home and cancelling plans is extremely difficult especially when you had thought you would be having a relaxing and enjoyable time. And that's in addition to the stress and grief you're already feeling over your loss.
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I know it was extra hard because of all that was going on. Hang in there and know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
I'm so sorry for your loss...when my son and I were there in December, I received the news of the unexpected death of my mom. So we had to pack up and drive home, grieving and in shock. My deepest sympathies to you.