Just makes you think, doesn't it?

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Found this on the UK community boards and i thought it was interesting on how everyone seems to do this almost everyday on here but we never think of the consequences.

After tossing her books on the sofa, she decided to grab a snack and get on-line. She logged on under her screen name ByAngel213. She checked her Buddy List and saw GoTo123 was on. She sent him an instant message:

ByAngel213:
Hi. I'm glad you are on! I thought someone was following me home today. It was really weird!

GoTo123:
LOL You watch too much TV. Why would someone be following you?
Don't you live in a safe neighborhood?

ByAngel213:
Of course I do. LOL I guess it was my imagination cuz' I didn't see anybody when I looked out.

GoTo123:
Unless you gave your name out on-line. You haven't done that have you?

ByAngel213:
Of course not. I'm not stupid you know.

GoTo123:
Did you have a softball game after school today?

ByAngel213:
Yes and we won!!

GoTo123:
That's great! Who did you play?

ByAngel213:
We played the Hornets. LOL. Their uniforms are so gross! They look like bees. LOL

GoTo123:
What is your team called?

ByAngel213:
We are the Canton Cats. We have tiger paws on our uniforms. They are really cool.

GoTo1 23:
Did you pitch?

ByAngel213:
No I play second base. I got to go. My homework has to be done before my parents get home. I don't want them mad at me. Bye!

GoTo123:
Catch you later. Bye

Meanwhile.......GoTo123 went to the member menu and began to search for her profile. When it came up, he highlighted it and printed it out. He took out a pen and began to write down what he knew about Angel so far.

Her name: Shannon
Birthday: Jan. 3, 1985
Age: 13
State where she lived: North Carolina

Hobbies: softball, chorus, skating and going to the mall. Besides this information, he knew she lived in Canton because she had just told him. He knew she stayed by herself until 6:30 p.m. every afternoon until her parents came home from work. He knew she played softball on Thursday afternoons on the school team, and the team was named the Canton Cats Her favorite number 7 was printed on her jersey. He knew she was in the eighth grade at the Canton Junior High School . She had told him all this in the conversations they had on- line. He had enough information to find her now.

Shannon didn't tell her parents about the incident on the way home from the ballpark that day. She didn't want them to make a scene and stop her from walking home from the softball games. Parents were always overreacting and hers were the worst. It made her wish she was not an only child. Maybe if she had brothers and sisters, her parents wouldn't be so overprotective.

By Thursday, Shannon had forgotten about the footsteps following her.

Her game was in full swing when suddenly she felt someone staring at her. It was then that the memory came back. She glanced up from her second base position to see a man watching her closely.

He was leaning against the fence behind first base and he smiled when she looked at him. He didn't look scary and she quickly dismissed the sudden fear she had felt.

After the game, he sat on a bleacher while she talked to the coach. She noticed his smile once again as she walked past him. He nodded and she smiled back. He noticed her name on the back of her shirt. He knew he had found her.

Quietly, he walked a safe distance behind her. It was only a few blocks to Shannon 's home, and once he saw where she lived he quickly returned to the park to get his car.

Now he had to wait. He decided to get a bite to eat until the time came to go to Shannon 's house. He drove to a fast food restaurant and sat there until time to make his move.

Shannon was in her room later that evening when she heard voices in the living room.

'Shannon, come here,' her father called. He sounded upset and she couldn't imagine why. She went into the room to see the man from the ballpark sitting on the sofa.

'Sit down,' her father began, 'this man has just told us a most interesting story about you.'

Shannon sat back. How could he tell her parents anything? She had never seen him before today!

'Do you know who I am, Shannon ?' the man asked.

'No,' Shannon answered.

'I am a police officer and your online friend, GoTo123.'

Shannon was stunned. 'That's im possible! GoTo is a kid my age! He's 14. And he lives in Michigan !'

The man smiled. 'I know I told you all that, but it wasn't true. You see, Shannon , there are people on-line who pretend to be kids; I was one of them. But while others do it to injure kids and hurt them, I belong to a group of parents who do it to protect kids from predators. I came here to find you to teach you how dangerous it is to talk to people on-line. You told me enough about yourself to make it easy for me to find you. You named the school you went to, the name of your ball team and the po sition you played. The number and name on your jersey just made finding you a breeze.'

Shannon was stunned 'You mean you don't live in Michigan ?'

He laughed. 'No, I live in Raleigh . It made you feel safe to think I was so far away, didn't it?'

She nodded.

'I had a friend whose daughter was like you. Only she wasn't as lucky. The guy found her and murdered her while she was home alone. Kids are taught not to tell anyone when they are alone, yet they do it all the time on-line. The wrong people trick you into givi ng out information a little here and there on-line. Before you know it, you have told them enough for them to find you without even realizing you have done it. I hope you've learned a lesson from this and won't do it again. Tell others about this so they will be safe too?'

'It's a promise!'

That night Shannon and her Dad and M om all knelt down together and thanked God for protecting Shannon from what could have been a tragic situation.
 
I trust the people I talk to.
Which, are all from the DIS.
I have reasons for why I trust them, and this isn't going to alter the way I think about them.
I'm sick of people telling me things like this. I KNOW this.
 
I have lots of online friends. I accept them as who they are. I would never meet up with someone unless i trusted them, and have met people from dis, before.
 
I've seen this before.

I'm not going to say "I only give out info to people I trust" because truth is i've probably given out enough info that if somone wanted to stalk me... they could. But, I only give out PERSONAL info to people I REALLY trust. I've NEVER posted my middle name or initial online. Nor have I given my phone number to anyone I didn't know (with one VERY trustworthy acception).

I'm not stupid. I know when to stop giving out info.
 

I'm not stupid enough, to tell someone my phone number.
Unless, I really trust them, and have a reason for doing so.
Like, perhaps if I was going to meet them in Disney (basically the only place I'm likely to meet anyone from here), I may call them to, get to know them, so the meet isn't so awkward.
 
Well, it does make me think, but the girl in the story was really stupid and she gave away so much information.

I only give out information to people I trust and I trust people on the DIS.
But thanks for the info. ;)
 
It does make you think.
But that girl gave out waaaaaayy too much info.

If I don't know you and you want to know my birthday or something else,good for you.
But I won't be telling you anytime soon.
Don't get your hopes up.
 
I doubt that actually happened. It seemed too, I dunno....cliche.

And I don't talk to anybody who'd either A) Want to rape me....B) Want to kidnap me...or C) Want to kill me, and even if they did want to do A, B, or C, I don't give out enough info to allow them to do that. I think the most I tell people is that I live in southeast Michigan in the greater Detroit area.
 
I doubt that actually happened. It seemed too, I dunno....cliche.

And I don't talk to anybody who'd either A) Want to rape me....B) Want to kidnap me...or C) Want to kill me, and even if they did want to do A, B, or C, I don't give out enough info to allow them to do that. I think the most I tell people is that I live in southeast Michigan in the greater Detroit area.

I'm sure its happened i just think that someone wrote it down using different facts and different names. And in some cases people just dont come out IM-ing you or e-mailing you saying they want to kidnap or whatever,you so you can't say you dont talk to them bc u never know its not like there going to come out and tell you.
 
That does make me think.
I think I am going to be A LOT careful with the information I share.
 
I doubt that actually happened. It seemed too, I dunno....cliche.

And I don't talk to anybody who'd either A) Want to rape me....B) Want to kidnap me...or C) Want to kill me, and even if they did want to do A, B, or C, I don't give out enough info to allow them to do that. I think the most I tell people is that I live in southeast Michigan in the greater Detroit area.

it was written in 98. In 98 you would've had to write out your address, phone number, social security number and post it on a aol profile for ANYONE to find you. Computers and the average computer user was more technologically ignorant. You couldn't hunt someone down using their IP or their phone number like you can now. in 1998, that story was a work of fiction. Not to mention, police officers have better things to do with their time then to teaching children not to reveal info on the net.
 
People always say they "know" this stuff and that they "know" who to trust and who not to trust but I can tell you all right now that you don't. Even on the DIS. The world isn't all bad but there are those few rotten eggs out there and that is what you have to watch out for. I don't think this is supposed to be taken as being factual...something that actually happened...but I think the message behind it is that you really don't know who you are talking to and people inadvertently give out information to those they think are fine.

Consider the DIS boards. The Teen Disney board is not a private board to only those who are teens. Middle-aged freaks can also view all these threads...including the picture thread. ALWAYS be careful at what you pictures you post. Posting a picture of you may be the first step in attracting the idiots. Then, if the idiots are serious enough, they could study the picture and notice things in the background to learn stuff about you.

Then consider how a lot of people know your first name here. Many posts include people mentioning your first name instead of your DIS name. Now, if this freak is determined enough, he/she now has your picture AND your first name.

Now consider WHAT you post about. The freak can see what interests you and what doesn't. Also, depending on what you have in your profiles, you possibly have given the freak MORE to play around with. Maybe you wrote down your location or state in the "location" topic or your age. You may even have stated what your occupation is - even listing "student" gives the freak an idea as to what age range you may be. The threads "Tell us about yourself" (or w/e the titles) are attractive to the freaks because it helps them learn more.

While you may not be posting what your address or your full name or anything else like that all into one post, when it all adds up, it adds up. Even if you are not telling one person all this stuff directly, they learn.

Of course this is stuff people hear about and if you didn't already know this, you MUST be living under a rock - it's the 21 century...you can't NOT know safety measures such as "be safe on line, you never know who you are talking to" etc. But people don't realize that this stuff CAN happen to them and that you don't even have to be as open about it as the girl in the scenario was. Like I said, posting things here and there on forums adds up.

I have met people from the DIS before. I have been to DIS meets. There are some people who I talk to online who know more about me than my own best friends knows about me...there ARE people you can trust...but you cannot trust everyone and you can't always trust those who you think are not bad in any way. There is one guy who I had talked to for over a year online. He knows my name (full name), age, town/state where I live, college, the kind of car I drive, cell #, and he knows a great deal of things that interest me. He lives in NH and while he probably isn't a freak of any sort (such as what I have believed for ever since I talked to him *he's been to DIS meets and stuff so I put my trust into that fact that other people from the DIS [mods/webmasters who have met him] think he is okay*) it scares the crap outta me knowing that I didn't exactly leave this guy on good terms lol and that he knows all this stuff about me. The things he started saying became VERY creepy and so I stopped talking to him. I get SOOOO freaked out about it even thinking of how much this guy knows. I get to continue living wondering if this guy has some sort of freakish plan to find me and hurt me.

The point of telling you all that is because he was someone who I trusted COMPLETELY. He is from the DIS and we had talked forever on the DIS and in VMK before we started talking on yahoo. Now, I COMPLETELY regret saying that stuff to him...and ALLLL the while I kept telling myself that I *knew* all this. Of course I knew to be safe online and that you never know who you're talking to...but you truly NEVER know.

Who gives a crap is this story "really happened" or not. haha, that isn't the point.

As careful as you may be, maybe you aren't careful enough. As smart as you keep calling yourself about online safety, maybe you just don't know everything.

As the world population grows...the freak population grows. The world is NOT a bad place, as I have said, but you HAVE to be careful.
 
I think the vast majority of my online friends (that I talk to on a regular basis) know my name. Most of them know my birthday because it shows up with a reminder on MySpace, FaceBook, and LiveJournal. Most of them know what I look like, too. But I keep close watch on who I talk to. The only two people I've never met in person on my AIM list are Shelby (pretty sure that she's who she says she is...either that or she's gone through a lot of trouble to make it look like she's a teenage girl) and a friend from LiveJournal (who would have had to go through the same amount of trouble). My LiveJournal is friends-locked, which means I choose who can read my entries. My MySpace doesn't give out much personal information. I make sure I only friend people I know. I've got a couple bands, but I'm not too worried about them. As for my FaceBook, I only let people I trust read my full profile.

I'm not going to stop listing stuff, I'm just going to keep monitoring who can read it.
 
I pretty much trust everyone I talk to. Around 4-5 people on the DIS know my cell phone trouble, where I live, and if your on my Facebook, you pretty much know everything to track me down.

I'm not worried, and I know it sounds naive, but still, I'm not worried. I trust all [most] of you guys on the DIS, and I trust everyone on my Facebook.

Honestly, I've heard stories like these before, tons of them, and still I'm not worried.

I have 4 DIS meets scheduled in September. I'm meeting Jess and random adults from the CB. Do I trust Jess, heck yes. =D. Do I trust the adults, yeah pretty much.

This story [whether it's fake or not] doesn't make me think at all.

So if any of you guys are weird pervs, go ahead, celebrate, you've won with me.
 
im actually really bad at this.
i belong to a website called cosplay.com. and on it people from all over the world post pictures and talk about what convention theyre going to next. i have had guys IM me asking me about what con im going to, what i will be dressing up as, etc. half the time, i dont realize the potential danger that could lead to. granted im never at these things alone, im usually with atleast two or more people, but still. i believe people at my conventions i go to trust way too easily.
 
I'm sure its happened i just think that someone wrote it down using different facts and different names. And in some cases people just dont come out IM-ing you or e-mailing you saying they want to kidnap or whatever,you so you can't say you dont talk to them bc u never know its not like there going to come out and tell you.

Well, lets see the people on my AIM list.

There's Shelby who doesn't want to rape me...I think. ;)
My friend Kevin, who I know in real life.
Jen, doubt she's going to do anything.
NGO_Chocolate (guy on another fourm. He....might want to rape me. (...))
Kyle, who I also know in real life.
Spiderpig (guy on another forum)....havn't given him any personal info.
RTT (friend of mine)....havn't given him personal info an he's out in Cali anywho.
Sarah (old poster here)...doubt she'd want to do anything to me.
Jrmy....another poster on another board who I havn't given any info.
Shark...also another poster on another board who I havn't given any info.
Sps, ALSO another poster on another board who I havn't given any info.
Justin, a friend of mine in real life.
Tink...another poster on another board. She's in Calgary. Crossing the border would be a pain, and I havn't given her any info.
Ben, online friend of mine who lives in Michigan...I havn't given him any info.
And Infamous....another poster on another board who I havn't given any info.

I highly doubt any one of those would want to do anything to me.:confused3
 
Anyways.
I still have some old friends from other forums on my MSN, but they're people who are important to me, and don't know much other than I live in Canada.
That's pretty broad.
The people on AIM are all from the DIS. I know they're all normal people, and I trust most of them (the other part I'm just not very friendly with anymore).
 
Yeah, and about my AIM list...It's mostly people that are my friends in RL, and you guys from the DIS.

With the exception of a few ;) I don't think anyone on there would want to rape or murder me.
 


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