Hi, I will try to answer the questions that I can:
The shows:
The shows vary greatly on
RCCL ships. There are usually 2 production shows on a 7 day trip, with singers/dancers. I saw both, and didn't see anything that I wouldn't take my kids to, but I don't think they would enjoy them much. Singing and dancing to songs they don't know isn't very appealing IMHO.
The other shows we had were:
Welcome aboard show that was the cruise director (cruise directors on RCCL ships are usually funny outgoing types, usually entertaining, they don't wear stuffy uniforms like on
DCL). Then there was a comedian, and maybe a dance number by the production people. (I missed this show in person, but caught some of it on repeat on the TV, it was the superbowl that night, so we were watching that).
The group the Coasters performed in another show.
We had the comic Rondell Sheridan at another show. He has been on Hollywood squares, tonight show etc. Very Very funny, not really racy, but not geared toward kids.
The ice show was very very good, and most kids would enjoy it I think.
Farewell show, again had the cruise director, then the production people and then another comic. Again, nothing bad for the kids really, just not geared toward them.
The entertainment changes every week, and you never know what you will get ahead of time with the exception of the production shows.
The kids clubs:
There is only a charge for the kids clubs after 10pm I believe. They are set up similar to disney with the kids broken down by age groups.
I don't know about room configuration becuase I have always just had 2 in a cabin, but I do know that the number of cabins that sleep more than 2 is not very many compared to DCL.
RKB : That is a hard questions regarding whether your DS will miss Disney. I guess I will compare it like this: My kids loved going to WDW. Then, we went to Florida to visit family and took them to Islands of Adventure at Universal Studios. They loved it there, and said they had the best time they ever had at a theme park, even without the mouse. So while they had always said they loved WDW the best, once they tried something else, they realized WDW wasn't the only thing out there. Soooo, while my kids may miss the mouse at first on their cruise next year, when they talk about what they liked on their DCL cruise, it was the beach, the food, the kids clubs etc. not really the characters. Only you know your child best. As for the servers, you do have the same ones all week, and while they are all good, like on DCL, there are some that are more personable than others, (ours on DCL last year weren't very friendly to us or our kids, but they were proficient servers).
DMS_cruisers04: The airport is packed on debarkation day. There were 4 ships that were debarking the same day, and everyone was flying out that day. We were fortunate to have access to Continental's Club, so we didn't really have to be in the mass of people. I have heard that it is best to fly down a day early and leave a day late to avoid the crowds. We did fly down a day early, and didn't have any problems at all.
CheapMom - yes the ship we were on had the rock wall, skating rink, inline skating etc. There are no charges for these actvities, and all gear is provided including inline, or ice skates, helmets, etc. They even had a sessions just for families for ice skating.
Well, I hope I answered all the questions so far that I could. If I missed anything, or there are any more questions ask away! My friends are sick of hearing about my cruise obbession, so it is nice to have people to talk to who enjoy them as much as I do!
That was a great thing about our trip, so many people we met in taxis, on the ship, at the airport etc. were all cruise nuts like my husband and I. The big topic was which cruise lines and how many cruises each had taken! I was glad to know we weren't alone!