Just confused.

[PrincessKellen74]

Maybe it's b/c I am a mother, but I was really shocked at the amount of people who were "non accomodating" on the busses to mother's holding sleeping of small children. I also noticed alot of ignorance from visitors that I have NEVER noticed before. I mean a complete disregaurd to others. Ugh. Anyway, I normally DON't vent, but it frustrates me very much when an elderly person has to struggle to stand on a buss when a young couple is sitting comfortably.

I guess that maybe not everyone has the same respect and values for others....but i was upset, so i had to vent.

Yes i understand we are ALLLL tired at the end of the day, but take into consideration that not only is that mom EXHAUSTED from touring the world, but she probably had to carry the little one alot of the time, and now she's stuck trying to hold on to her child and the pole. Sheesh!

ok Im done!

 

[mammomommie]

I agree all the way.

 

[emmaleigh47]

Totally in agreement -- see my observations from our recent trip -- you echo my sediments!

 

[MelanieC]

Me and my family have always and will always get up for both groups. When I had young ones, there were always nice people who would let me sit down while holding my son.

 

[MarieA]

I agree with you. I remember one night a couple of years ago during a trip to WDW my DH, DD (21 at the time), DS (18 at the time) and myself were taking one the WDW buses from Magic Kingdom to the BC. We happened to get on the bus first and we all sat down. One of the last people to get on the bus was a mom who was holding her daughter (3 -4 years old) in her arms. The mom looked as exhausted as we all felt and her daughter was trying to hold it together and stay awake. My DD offered her seat to the mom and she said no. My daughter got up anyway and told the little girl to sit down. You could see the relief on the mom's face as the little girl sat down. The little girl was asleep before the bus pulled out of the Magic Kingdom parking lot.

I guess we are a little different from many of the people that currently go to WDW. My family always gives up our seats to people who need them more then we do.

 

[maxiesmom]

Sorry, but I don't thing being a parent automatically gets you a seat on a bus. If you are holding a sleeping child and can see that you will have to stand, you do have choices other than getting on that bus. You could wait for the next bus, or grab a taxi. Why would you get on a bus and expect someone to get up for you? To me, that is rude.

And as far as an older person not being able to balance, well that is just sad. It is sad that whatever family is with that person couldn't see to their needs and either wait until a bus where grandpa could have a seat, spend the extra $20 on a cab, or even rent a car for the trip.

Sense when did the responsiblity to care for our families and keep them safe get put on total strangers? If I knew ahead of time that someone with me couldn't stand, I would do what it took to keep them safe and see to it they were comfortable. What I would not do is load them on the bus and expect someone else to get up.

 

[Narnia]

Sorry, but I don't thing being a parent automatically gets you a seat on a bus. If you are holding a sleeping child and can see that you will have to stand, you do have choices other than getting on that bus. You could wait for the next bus, or grab a taxi. Why would you get on a bus and expect someone to get up for you? To me, that is rude.

And as far as an older person not being able to balance, well that is just sad. It is sad that whatever family is with that person couldn't see to their needs and either wait until a bus where grandpa could have a seat, spend the extra $20 on a cab, or even rent a car for the trip.

Sense when did the responsiblity to care for our families and keep them safe get put on total strangers? If I knew ahead of time that someone with me couldn't stand, I would do what it took to keep them safe and see to it they were comfortable. What I would not do is load them on the bus and expect someone else to get up.

That was just plain rude .It's not supposed to be that way I bet you wouldn't give food to the needy if they needed it because that's so sad thier extended families should help them out. Why don't you allow that mom to stand and drop the kid on your lap when the bus turns a corner! Waiting for "the next bus" doen't seem logical nor does taking a taxi. In florida there are car seat laws and I for one would refuse to cart one around! Think about other people hold doors when some one needs it, help find a lost child and do what is considered random acts of kindness others are whatching and might catch the bug

 

[MarieA]

Sorry, but I don't thing being a parent automatically gets you a seat on a bus. If you are holding a sleeping child and can see that you will have to stand, you do have choices other than getting on that bus. You could wait for the next bus, or grab a taxi. Why would you get on a bus and expect someone to get up for you? To me, that is rude.

And as far as an older person not being able to balance, well that is just sad. It is sad that whatever family is with that person couldn't see to their needs and either wait until a bus where grandpa could have a seat, spend the extra $20 on a cab, or even rent a car for the trip.

Sense when did the responsiblity to care for our families and keep them safe get put on total strangers? If I knew ahead of time that someone with me couldn't stand, I would do what it took to keep them safe and see to it they were comfortable. What I would not do is load them on the bus and expect someone else to get up.

Giving up your seat to someone who is holding a small child or an elderly person is just a nice and unselfish thing to do. Sometimes waiting for the next bus means waiting 15 - 20 minutes (standing at the stop) and sometimes longer than that (we've waited 45 minutes). I guess the choice is waiting 15 - 20 minutes standing at the bus stop or getting on the bus and getting their tired children to bed in 15 - 20 minutes.

 

[mi*vida*loca]

Growing up a man always stood up for an elderly person or a woman carrying her child. It's just called good manners. If it were us on that bus DH would definitely get up! If needed I would too but I have a small child to carry. No question about it.

This is the #1 reason I'm not taking Disney transportation when we go. We will have our own car. I couldn't imagine standing with my 3 year old on the bus.

 

[Hoopfamily]

I usually stay away from these topics, but..... You can't always look at someone and know if they have a disability. Me for example I have 2 bulging disks, so it can be very very painful for me to stand or walk to long. As a matter of fact my left thigh feels like I'm being stabbed if I stand too long. So before you assume people are just rude, think about maybe why they are not getting up.

 

[mi*vida*loca]

Giving up your seat to someone who is holding a small child or an elderly person is just a nice and unselfish thing to do. Sometimes waiting for the next bus means waiting 15 - 20 minutes (standing at the stop) and sometimes longer than that (we've waited 45 minutes). I guess the choice is waiting 15 - 20 minutes standing at the bus stop or getting on the bus and getting their tired children to bed in 15 - 20 minutes.

Or standing at the bus stop holding said child for 15-20 minutes then waiting for another bus and holding the child on that bus because face it...they are going to be packed!!!! I would get on the bus too. You are going to have to hold them either way. KWIM??

Disney magic!!

 

[dis-happy]

Sorry, but I don't thing being a parent automatically gets you a seat on a bus. If you are holding a sleeping child and can see that you will have to stand, you do have choices other than getting on that bus. You could wait for the next bus, or grab a taxi. Why would you get on a bus and expect someone to get up for you? To me, that is rude.

And as far as an older person not being able to balance, well that is just sad. It is sad that whatever family is with that person couldn't see to their needs and either wait until a bus where grandpa could have a seat, spend the extra $20 on a cab, or even rent a car for the trip.

Sense when did the responsiblity to care for our families and keep them safe get put on total strangers? If I knew ahead of time that someone with me couldn't stand, I would do what it took to keep them safe and see to it they were comfortable. What I would not do is load them on the bus and expect someone else to get up.

Sorry, but it's called manners. Obviously not being taught at all anymore. Bet you'd also be the first one grabbing a seat on the lifeboat, pushing aside the women and children and old people to get there. Sheesh.

 

[sharadoc]

Sorry, but I don't thing being a parent automatically gets you a seat on a bus. If you are holding a sleeping child and can see that you will have to stand, you do have choices other than getting on that bus. You could wait for the next bus, or grab a taxi. Why would you get on a bus and expect someone to get up for you? To me, that is rude.

And as far as an older person not being able to balance, well that is just sad. It is sad that whatever family is with that person couldn't see to their needs and either wait until a bus where grandpa could have a seat, spend the extra $20 on a cab, or even rent a car for the trip.

Sense when did the responsiblity to care for our families and keep them safe get put on total strangers? If I knew ahead of time that someone with me couldn't stand, I would do what it took to keep them safe and see to it they were comfortable. What I would not do is load them on the bus and expect someone else to get up.

I NEVER get involved in any type of snarky exchanges, but I absolutely can't hold my tongue on this one. Respect and caring for others is what makes us a civilized society!! If I am capable, and someone else is not, then it is my responsibility as an evolved human being to care for those who cannot care for themselves.

I'm guessing you don't have children, or a physical issue, or travelled with anyone who has any physical issues. What you are professing is that only the most capable can have the advantage, and everyone else should just find another way to deal!!

That's so sad. I hope you never need anyone's help, since you are so unwilling to give it.

 

[disney-super-mom]

Sorry, but I don't thing being a parent automatically gets you a seat on a bus. If you are holding a sleeping child and can see that you will have to stand, you do have choices other than getting on that bus. You could wait for the next bus, or grab a taxi. Why would you get on a bus and expect someone to get up for you? To me, that is rude.

And as far as an older person not being able to balance, well that is just sad. It is sad that whatever family is with that person couldn't see to their needs and either wait until a bus where grandpa could have a seat, spend the extra $20 on a cab, or even rent a car for the trip.

Sense when did the responsiblity to care for our families and keep them safe get put on total strangers? If I knew ahead of time that someone with me couldn't stand, I would do what it took to keep them safe and see to it they were comfortable. What I would not do is load them on the bus and expect someone else to get up.

It's called caring and courtesy my dear. Help your fellow man (or woman) whenever you can. Then you too can be a Disney-super-mom!

 

[JackJack08]

I have been on the bus, many times when a Mom/Dad is trying to hold an infant or child while standing. I have also been the one, trying to balance and steady myself, while on the bus with my kids. It is dangerous. What goes around comes around and if you are healthy and able just "buck up" and give them your seat. What is the big deal? I can't believe it is even a question.....

 

[MarieA]

Or standing at the bus stop holding said child for 15-20 minutes then waiting for another bus and holding the child on that bus because face it...they are going to be packed!!!! I would get on the bus too. You are going to have to hold them either way. KWIM??

Disney magic!!

I agree with you totally. I would absolutely choose getting on the bus and taking my chances rather than stand at the stop for 15 - 20 minutes holding my child. In fact when my children were younger we did that many times.

 

[brockash]

I totally agree, and noticed it on our last trip as well. I would never imagine sitting in a seat by myself while a child, parent holding a child or elderly person stands. I don't care what time it is or how tired I am, and I'm happy to say my children will be raised that way as well.

 

[jlatina32]

Giving up your seat to someone who is holding a small child or an elderly person is just a nice and unselfish thing to do. Sometimes waiting for the next bus means waiting 15 - 20 minutes (standing at the stop) and sometimes longer than that (we've waited 45 minutes). I guess the choice is waiting 15 - 20 minutes standing at the bus stop or getting on the bus and getting their tired children to bed in 15 - 20 minutes.

I totally agree with u. Alot of the time, my family and I would wait for the next bus just so we can get a seat. This is only possible because my kids are 7 and 10 years of age. But if we see a mom with small children who obviously need it just as much we do, my common courtesy kicks in. I will have both my kids sit on my lap and easily give up a couple of seats for a mom with children who needs it. As a mom, my first priority after a long day at the parks is to get my kids washed and rested. I bet thats what these moms are thinking. It is too bad that maxiesmom doesn't think like us.

 

[Evil__Queen]

Honestly, I agree with Maxie. Busses are always coming, if you get on the steps and it looks like you will stand, but you "need" to sit, you really should wait for the next bus.

If I feel I need to sit, and after back surgery and with my age, I will only get on a bus, I can sit on, otherswise, my tail can back out of the bus (giving room to someone who can and wants to stand- the room) but not leaving me in a bad situation.

I am always in a hurry to get back to my room at the end of the day, but I do make sure my transport needs are met. My 2 cents-all can and should do this.

My son has Asperger's and Severe's, he looks healthy as a horse, but his medical needs really do require him to sit on moving transportation, so this is why he will sit and not give up a seat.

There could be more than meets the eye in many cases, and if someone else waits for a bus, to get a seat, they shouldn't feel like they should then HAVE to give up a seat, because someone else couldn't or didn't want to wait on an available seat.

Please, not arguing here. just being realistic.

 

[brockash]

Sorry, but I don't thing being a parent automatically gets you a seat on a bus. If you are holding a sleeping child and can see that you will have to stand, you do have choices other than getting on that bus. You could wait for the next bus, or grab a taxi. Why would you get on a bus and expect someone to get up for you? To me, that is rude.

And as far as an older person not being able to balance, well that is just sad. It is sad that whatever family is with that person couldn't see to their needs and either wait until a bus where grandpa could have a seat, spend the extra $20 on a cab, or even rent a car for the trip.

Sense when did the responsiblity to care for our families and keep them safe get put on total strangers? If I knew ahead of time that someone with me couldn't stand, I would do what it took to keep them safe and see to it they were comfortable. What I would not do is load them on the bus and expect someone else to get up.

$20 bucks for each bus ride can get expensive. I was personally raised to look out for other ppl. in need, not just myself, so I think it's completely rude for me, a perfectly healthy, able adult to not offer my seat to someone who needs it more. I don't think it's fair that a family with children or an elderly person would be expected to pay more for transporation to and from the parks, because of inconsiderate ppl. I think that's a huge problem with the world today, we are all too self-absorbed.