Jealousy

[cindys_castle2011]

Do you get jealous if your boyfriend/girlfriend or person you like talks to another boy/girl.

Or when a girl/boy is flirting with your significant other.

How do you deal with it?

 

[DramaQueen]

there was a time when i would get a bit jealous to be honest.
when my bf went away to university for the first time and i was still at home and he was living with all new people (and new girls) i would drive my self crazy with jealousy. i would get so upset if i saw a picture of him with another girl!! and i did the only thing i could do which was get over it.
i was honestly driving myself mental with jealousy, so i just had to start being more logical, realize that there's not reason for me to be jealous because he's MINE and we love each other, and when i talk to another guys it's not because i like them or want to flirt with them, so i can only think the same of derek.
i have a lot of guy friends, so it's not fair for me to sit here and tell him he can't have girl friends.

and to be honest, we've been dating for 4 years, 2 and a half of which he's been in university, and it took me about a year to get over being jealous, but now i'm not at all. he can do whatever he wants/talk to whoever he wants and i could care less. i know he loves me, and wants to be with me, and that he's gonna always be mine, so there's no reason for me to be jealous.

and now if a girl flirts with derek i just laugh because i know that she's making a fool of herself because he's not interested in anyone else.

trust me kels, if you & your bf have a strong, opens & honest relationship there's no reason to be jealous, all the silly little girls who try to flirt with him are just looking like idiots in the long run because he's YOURS and the two of you can laugh about how immature and sill any of the girls who try to get between you are.

okay that was a long frikkin post! haha i'm done now!

 

[cindys_castle2011]

Girls really are all over him all the time, and he some how doesn't realize it?

I know I have nothing to worry about. He tells me everytime a girl texts him, or everytime some random chick comes up to him.

He's the most honest and trustworthy boy I have ever met.

But this one girl who he dated in like 9th grade.. just worries me sometimes. Not about him, but about her. She's the kind of girl that will do anything and every thing with whoever just to get attention.

She's already done something with every guy in Garrett's "group" of friends (girlfriend or not) and I've heard that she wants Garrett now.

He's definitely not the kind to put himself in a situation to let something like that happen, but just the thought that she wants him in those ways drives me crazy.

She comes off as such a sweet, straight A, perfect little girl. And it's those you have to worry about! lol

 

[Sparx]

oh no. not at all. i've never been a jealous person. and at this point in my relationship, there is really no reason at all for it.

 

[PigletGurl]

No, Im not usually the jealous type, but I can be. I'm engaged to Scott. I trust him. We're gonna be married in the future. There is no need to be jealous because he promised he will never cheat on me.

 

[hkrox]

I'm not really the jealous type of person at all. But I do have a lot of experience with jealous people. I've had issues with being really close friends with a guy and a girl who are going out. And the girl has been really jealous/protective of the bf. Honestly I don't get why people would be jealous of other girls talking to their bf. I think that is stupid. They should learn to trust that their bf loves them and only them.

 

[ktbutterfly2011]

I'm really the jealous type but for some reason, I don't get jealout with who i'm with right now. I guess it's because we are really open and very honest.