I've hit rock bottom...

[tinkychloe]

ok.. dude im not trying to flame at all because im a total fun-lovin person but just want to give you some advice.. where would you rather be? choice 1.. with nice people who already accept you for who you are.. or choice 2 rude obnoxious (sp?) jerks who dont pay 1 ounce of attention to you??? i think you get my point anyways on to what i was saying.. I have lots of friends most of them from band because i can tell you i am a complete band geek inside and out and proud of it! i can also tell you that at least 160 kids at my school feel the same way i do and are all my friends!! i would rather have my band buddies then the cheerleaders anyday ( not implying that cheerleaders are bad just making an example because i have had friends who were cheerleaders in the past that were very nice it just seemed like a good expression) dude i have plenty of friends and i only have a few super good friends in band but i sure do have a family of friends and a support group whenever i need it from 160 people becuase we stick together through thick and thin! i mean i know the times where you look at who your sitting with at lunch and say what am i doing here? then you laugh and realize you are right where you are supposed to be because in the real world nobodys normal we are just us and that is all that we can be so if someone cant except you for you and who you hang out with i say they aren't worth it.. because when you find someone you like you shouldn't have to change 1 thing about them! therefore keep your friends ditch the wanting the cool because maybe it isn't so cool to be cool? maybe it is cool to just be yourself

major props 2 u 4 that lovely little post.. i ttly agree w/ u there.. i have some ppl @ my table who i can't stand!.. they also can't take a hint. lol. but some of my best friends sit all around me.. including my GORGEOUS boyfriend Shawn [ ]. but ya kno.. there's gunna b ppl in lyfe that u just never "click" w/, and i think that we all just need 2 accept that. i have ppl less popular (in a manner of speaking) than me and my peeps that i can ttly relate 2.. wut's important is that u have @ least 3 ppl that r ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS there 4 u & that u can say nething 2 them.. if u have that, it rly doesn't matter about popularity.. we all 4get evry1 else when we go off into the real world, rite? well, good luck w/ yur friends.. i rly hope u can solve yur problem.

 

[TheHiddenMickey]

Hmm . . . I had that problem. I was a snot to them and ignored them and hung out with the popular crowd.

Not right. But . . . I'm popular. Woopideedooda

 

[laurlaur4]

You say you sit near these kids (people you say have nothing in common with you whatsoever) day after day and as soon as someone "cool" walks by, be a girl or the guy you would rather be talking with, you instantly feel embarrassed. Tell me is this is also true with the same senerio: You quickly become wrapped in this feeling where you want to act out some crazy scene with your "friends" just so the "cool" kids don't gain the impression that you are "nerdy". You know what your interests are but you sometimes feel as if you can't express that interest due to the fact that you feel blocked in by these techno loving kids. You would rather walk around being that "cool" kid that kids like you feel embarrassed around as soon as you enter. You sit there at the lunch table with these kids because you know they accept you but you are a little nervous that the kids with similar interests would not accept you; and oh gosh, how could they accept you after seeing you with these "nerds." Dignity begins to play a part here and you are fearful you will lose that dignity as soon as you "make a fool" of yourself by talking to the kids with similar interests. Are you nervous that the "cool" kids will "make fun" of you or ignore you? No, you could not be nervous about that because in your mind you are "cool" too. So then are you afraid the "friends" you sit with will forever here on out shun you if you, God forbid, talk and sit with these "cool" kids? I don't think you are considering you don't like being there from what you have infered upon us. In that case, why don't you tell these friends of yours that every so often at lunch, you are going to go hang out with these other kids whom you seem to share interest with. To be popular isn't to get rid of friends, but in fact gain more. Why is it that you continue to sit with these "friends" when you are not given assigned seats during lunch? Complaining about it won't get you anywhere. It may take some courage, but walking up to different people and chatting with them may ignite a whole new friendship; one that makes you more "proud". Because that is what this is all about right? Pride?

whoah you give REALLY good advice!
and everyone else does too!

 

[EeyoreFan1]

I'm sorry Mike. I am in the same position, except the flirting with girls part!

 

[WMX:V3]

Hmmm....can you switch tabels? At my school, there is two lunch rooms. I just moved becasue I was sitting with a bunch of pervs...

 

[MuNkY]

Do you live in Michigan? Near detroit, just cause I saw you talking about the red wings and such. Anyways i'm in Livonia, hope things are going well for you! I am off to Disney World tomorrow!

Holy Smokes. I used to live right by Livonia.

But now I live a little bit south of Ann Arbor.

 

[Sparx]

I know what youre talking about, but I can't really relate. My friends are insane, but I love them. If you don't like my friends, I'm a lot like them, so you're probably not gonna like me.

 

[The Dark Dancer]

But that's part of the problem. A girl should like me because of the things I like and whatnot, but they get the wrong idea about my interests because of the people I hang out with. I guess I know what I mean now by the phrase, "you are who you hang out with"

Yeah, I know what you mean. I hang out with girls who act blonde, run around chasing guys to kiss, and they can sometimes be immature but I love them anyway. But, y'all know my personality and I'm the total opposite.

My BF guess frustrated sometimes about how my friends act but he is super-calm around me. Like, if they hit him and say sorry he'll be all like "Yeah I bet you are sorry." and they'll hit him allot just playing. I play hit him sometimes and he just laughs and if I really hit him and didn't mean to I'll say I'm sorry and he'll says that he knows I am and it's okay.

He just knows that I always try and be the best person I can be and I don't hit him or thump him to annoy him. He trusts me but, allot of people I know sometimes are like, why does she hang out with them? I just try and be myself with people and see who will accept me. I'm very lucky and blessed to have my girls; No matter how ditsy they can be! lol

 

[PatriotsRule]

Yeah, I know what you mean. I hang out with girls who act blonde, run around chasing guys to kiss, and they can sometimes be immature but I love them anyway. But, y'all know my personality and I'm the total opposite.

My BF guess frustrated sometimes about how my friends act but he is super-calm around me. Like, if they hit him and say sorry he'll be all like "Yeah I bet you are sorry." and they'll hit him allot just playing. I play hit him sometimes and he just laughs and if I really hit him and didn't mean to I'll say I'm sorry and he'll says that he knows I am and it's okay.

He just knows that I always try and be the best person I can be and I don't hit him or thump him to annoy him. He trusts me but, allot of people I know sometimes are like, why does she hang out with them? I just try and be myself with people and see who will accept me. I'm very lucky and blessed to have my girls; No matter how ditsy they can be! lol

That's a really great way to look at it!

 

[The Dark Dancer]

That's a really great way to look at it!

Thank you! I try to keep a positive look on things so, that's just me. lol

 

[Lil_Tink]

Hearts are broken
And So are friendships
But Hearts can be mended
But friendships remain broken forever.

 

[naughty_faerie]

KIM OH MY FLIPPEN GOSH I CAME UP WITH THAT SAYING AND U STOLE IT ....UUUUGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHH...I MADE THAT UP IN MATH.........COPY CAT...BUT NO WORRIES I STILL <3 U......MAYBE

 

[naughty_faerie]

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