It's Tough To Be A Kid

LukenDC

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I have been reading the threads about schools and student recognition, field trips, movie breaks, and testing. I also regularly read the newspapers. I am really saddened and concerned by what I am reading.

I am 33 (finished high school in 1991) and was always a good student. When I was in grade school, we worked hard but also had fun. We had class parties with pizza, candy, ice cream, and baked treats; watched the occasional "fluff" movie; and went on occasional field trips to skating rinks and amusement parks. School was interesting and fun.

Now I hear about incessant preparations for multiple choice exams (which won't prepare anyone for adulthood); long hours of homework at the elementary school level that cut into family time; backpacks so heavy that they damage the spinal column; shaming students about food and their weight; and elimination of non-academic field trips. In the meantime, school violence appears to be at an all time high. I'm afraid that we are raising a generation of kids who will suffer from one complex after another that will haunt them well into adulthood.

Schools---and government---need to lighten up and let students LEARN about the joys of life as well as the hard work needed to earn those rewards. Having a piece of candy won't ruin a kid, nor will watching a "fluff" movie for an hour or two. The occasional day at an amusement park or skating rink will create fond memories of childhood that will be cherished for years afterward. The schools also have no business focusing on a child's weight. That is the responsibility of the parents and medical community.

As for those ubiquitous multiple choice exams, how about we trade them in for more practice on reading and writing? I'm a human resources director and I'm appalled at the cover letters and writing samples that I receive. We are raising generations of citizens who lack the power to effectively put their thoughts into words. Life requires critical thinking, not filling in a circle next to a force fed response.

OK, rant over.
 
LukenDC YOU ARE AWESOME!!!!!!
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I couldnt have said it better myself!!
 
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The NCLB act is stupid! The cutting of funding for schools is stupid. The fact that we are spending MORE $$$ fighting a "war" that we can't win than on our own childrens education is stupid. The fact that lawmakers are so out of touch with it all is stupid. The fact that teachers are quitting the profession and there are less joining it is stupid.
I hate the public education system and I'm a teacher!
 

As for those ubiquitous multiple choice exams, how about we trade them in for more practice on reading and writing? I'm a human resources director and I'm appalled at the cover letters and writing samples that I receive. We are raising generations of citizens who lack the power to effectively put their thoughts into words. Life requires critical thinking, not filling in a circle next to a force fed response


Thank you, thank you, that you. I am in the same situation as you and see it all the time. We bring about 8 to 10 college interns in each summer for 6 to 8 weeks and these are the best and brightest and you would not believe how unprepared they are for day to day work life. If nothing else, I make sure when they leave us they know how to act and work in a corporate world. I take pride in knowing my "coproate intern kids" will be a good part of the future workforce, and not just know how to color in a bubble sheet.
 
Excellent post! I am also in HR and it saddens me to see the resumes that come in with misspelled words all over the place. Just because you interned at a major company, it doesn't automaticall give you a job paying 50K to start so you can text message and IM your friends all day.

I loved going on field trips for school and having parties where we all had candy and cupcakes. I'm sad that DS will probably not have the same experience. They are doing BMI testing in kindergarten here these days! Last I heard, sometimes kids don't lose their baby fat until elementary school.
 
I just want to yell "They are kids for goodness sake!"

I am a teacher and I remember much too clearly the year the community targeted me for not giving enough homework. Monday through Thursday nights, they had about 30-45 minutes of homework (fourth grade), plus a monthly book report project. I was shocked and very hurt. I told my principal that I could easily add extra worksheets if that is what the parent wants, but I explained that I couldn't add any extra reasoning as to why I would give them. I stood my ground in that I believe that 10 minutes of homework per grade level is appropriate, that the student can show me if they are mastering a skill in 10 problems (it doesn't take 50 problems), and they are KIDS!!!! They need to play.

*sigh* (I guess I should put my flame resistant suit on now)
Karen
 
Karen B, as a parent I stand behind you 100%. My kids are in High School and College now and if I had to do it over I would have been a lot more vocal about all the work at the lower level. Hours of homework and projects all the time. Stupid busy stuff too. Over holiday's, long weekend, summer vacation. I can pretty much guarantee you when my kids are parents they are going to remember this meaningless stuff and they will not allow their kids to be part of it.
 
Hear, hear!!! :thumbsup2

When do kids get to be kids anymore? :confused3

Very well written post. Thanks for taking the time to write it.
 
I do a lot of babysitting and I see what these kids go through nowadays! Literally, the second they get home from school, they have to sit right down, and start trudging through homework assignment after assignment. Usually it takes the entire afternoon and evening - basically the kids do homework, eat, and go to bed, that's it! Forget about playing outside or relaxing! I'm seeing this as young as second grade, where the homework already overwhelms all aspects of family life :(

The other scary trend I am seeing is the expectation that EVERY single child has to be academically gifted, popular, well-liked, exceed exceptionally at sports, and expected to attend only the top name brand colleges. There is no other "definition of success", it seems! And if a child is not perfectly wonderful and smart in every way, then parents have to pay $$$$$ to "fix them" - pay for tutoring, therapy, meds to help them concentrate (sure, some kids need meds, but many are just normal active kids!), etc. I can't tell you how many kids I know being tutored. What a booming business it must be! In my day, they would have been average normal kids, but nowadays - they are behind and need even more homework and tutoring to make them "smarter". :rolleyes: OK, I am rambling now, but I so agree with the OP - something is very wrong in education! :(
 
I just want to yell "They are kids for goodness sake!"

I am a teacher and I remember much too clearly the year the community targeted me for not giving enough homework. Monday through Thursday nights, they had about 30-45 minutes of homework (fourth grade), plus a monthly book report project. I was shocked and very hurt. I told my principal that I could easily add extra worksheets if that is what the parent wants, but I explained that I couldn't add any extra reasoning as to why I would give them. I stood my ground in that I believe that 10 minutes of homework per grade level is appropriate, that the student can show me if they are mastering a skill in 10 problems (it doesn't take 50 problems), and they are KIDS!!!! They need to play.

*sigh* (I guess I should put my flame resistant suit on now)
Karen

I was a teacher and I agree that we were told homework every night. 10 minutes per grade. I taught 1st and let me tell you worksheets that parents do does not = learning for the child. I gave lots of homework that didn't involve worksheets. Say your spelling words & spell your spelling words out loud.

To the OP- I couldn't have said it better. :thumbsup2
 
Now I hear about incessant preparations for multiple choice exams (which won't prepare anyone for adulthood

I live in CT. Our school is doing the state testing for 3rd, 4th, and 5th graders in March. The testing is scheduled to take 10 days at up to 2 hours per day. 20 hours spent on testing! I feel sorry for those kids.
 
OP, thanks for such an intelligent, articulate post.
 
I live in CT. Our school is doing the state testing for 3rd, 4th, and 5th graders in March. The testing is scheduled to take 10 days at up to 2 hours per day. 20 hours spent on testing! I feel sorry for those kids.


My DH teaches high school band and he has had to give up 15 minutes of each 50 minute class to do prep for the upcoming state test. Why even bother with anything else besides teaching to the test? They should just put all the kids in an auditorium and just teach the test all day, every day.:rolleyes:
 
Very nice post. May I add one thing? Parents, please limit the video games and hand your child a book! I'm so tired of high school kids who can't read even simple books. And when they do read, they don't get any of the references because they've not read anything else! They can, however, tell me the intricacies of all the current video games.

I'm all for limiting the amount of homework, but kids need to read. I don't care if they are reading comic books as long as they are reading something!
 


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