BamaFan121s
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Because we say this and agree with this, doesn't make us high and mighty parents, it makes us responible parents. Those who try to "cheat the system" aren't being the best parents you can be.
The same could be said about a multitude of things though. This situation alone doesn't deem a parent as either responsible or unfit.
I don't think anyone has the right to make that judgement about other parents. If that's all it takes, I'm sure we've all done things (yourself included) that could label us as not 'being the best parents you can be.' Sorry, but this is just one of those things that really gets to me sometimes. (This is one of those times.) DD was just at 48" on our last trip--in her sneakers--she slightly missed the mark in her sandles we took. So anytime we went to a park where there was a 48" ride requirement, we made sure she wore her sneakers. They weren't platform shoes...they were just sneakers! THIS is enough to make me an irresponsible parent?!? Give me a break!
Sorry, I just couldn't resist! It always amazes me how blown out of proportion this topic gets and how it always results in parenting skills being challenged.
(By people who probbly do the same thing they preach against, just with a whole other set of circumstances.) I think it's a safe bet to assume NONE of us are perfect.

