My DD5 and I just got back from our first ever trips to
Disneyland and I must say, it was truly MAGICAL.
From the interactions with CM, to even how other guests were to us, to seeing the Castle uncovered and all lit up, well everything was magical.
I had a guest just give us her pager for the Meet 'N Greet Olaf totally out of the blue. We received a "Choice" Fastpass from a CM on Sunday that we were able to use on any ride (we used it on Alice).
This is just 2 samples.
CM interaction, not a problem. All were friendly, chatty, and gave us good information that enhanced our experience. Not a single rude CM was encountered, even when it got chilly and wet with the California rain downpours (as they were).
The only rudeness I encountered was from other guests (I got up from our table in a restaurant to put something in the garbage can 4 feet from us...my DD5 was at the table still eating...and someone took my chair and told me to get "lost" when I asked)
There is magic in Disneyland, you just have to give it a chance to find you and let the magic happen.
Disneyland IS magic.