kizmac
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LibertyLover said:I had a slightly different problem in May when I went down. My DD was 2, but turning 3 in June. She is tall for her age to boot. I carried a copy of her birth certificate just in case we were asked. It was a good thing I did. When I checked into the hotel the CM asked if we needed tickets. I said no, that I had one with some days on it for me and DD was not yet 3. CM expressed amazement about DD's age, clearly not believing me, although she was not nasty about it. I decided I had better nip things in the bud right there and so took out the copy and showed it to her, not in a nasty way either, sort of yeah, I know, I can't believe it either. CM was relieved and reassured and I was happy. Next trip we'll never be able to get anyone to believe she is under 3, so I don't have to worry about it. Only you can decide how to handle your son's age and how to deal with any possible questions from CMs. Whatever you decide to do, have a wonderful time.
kizmac said:So you can't have 5 in a room at AKL or WL? I didn't know that. What deluxes allow 5 then? If we are doing POR with 5 I figured that the Deluxes all allowed 5. We have 2 rooms but the youngest in one is 3 and the other 18 mths. Just wondering about our options in the future. I would stay offsite before I would lie, but frankly, I wish Disney would provide bigger families more options.
Deb & Bill said:Yes, you can have 5 at the AKL, but you have to book a room for 5. Some rooms only sleep 4. I think it's the same with WL. When you call, just tell them you need room for 5.
bicker said:Indeed, and that's really the point. Who cares about Disney? Disney can, should and does take care of itself. It doesn't need any "help" from do-gooders here on the DIS!
The issue most folks on these forums have with situations like this is the issue of personal integrity -- the belief that people should value their own personal integrity enough to simply refuse the temptation to lie. There are all these truly controversial subjects out there that reasonable people do disagree about: reproductive rights, sexual preference, war and peace, etc. -- one thing that most everyone does agree about is that deception is wrong.
Eeyore'sthebest said:I'm not going to tell you what you are doing is right or wrong (not your mom)but I will tell you a funny story.
We were at AKL and there was an adorable little girl. I got to chatting with the mother and asked how old the little one was. Her speech seemed very advanced. Her mom told me she was 3. That little girl whipped her head around and said "No mommy, I'm 2!" Mom said "No, you are 3." The response..... "Mommy! You told me that I'm 2 when I'm at Disney World."![]()
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That poor mother turned so red.![]()
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Moral: If you decide to lie about the age, be mindful of potentially embarassing situations. The little ones have no filter when it comes to what they say.![]()
princess_fiona said:I had intended to only use the "2 instead of 3" ploy for accomodation purposes and fully pay for her park tickets and food when she ordered off the kids menu. But after booking my PS, I learned they asked for the ages of the children in the party and I was afraid to say 3 for her (they ask for your resort confirmation# so I figured there might be a chance they found out I lied). But I don't want her to be Mickey's freeloading guest at restaurants/dinner shows/character meals! Now my conscience is kicking in big time. I am wondering how I can get out of this now :S
princess_fiona said:Wow you guys have been great with the feedback! I was a little wary of the kinds of replies I'd get, but all the opinions have been really helpful. Loved them all - thanks for the honesty! Yes I realize that was an ironic comment hehe. Anyways, I had decided I'd go ahead and tell them SHE was two instead of three because:
1) I can't afford anything but standard rooms at these two deluxe resorts even with the AP discount and I was totally psyched to have an opportunity to stay at AKL and WL on my first visit to WDW
3) I still haven't recovered from the realization admission would have been free for her to the parks/airfare/food if only we could've gone a month earlier
4) I didn't figure it would be such a big deal!!
But now I am not sure that was such a good idea. I've found myself in a jam. I had intended to only use the "2 instead of 3" ploy for accomodation purposes and fully pay for her park tickets and food when she ordered off the kids menu. But after booking my PS, I learned they asked for the ages of the children in the party and I was afraid to say 3 for her (they ask for your resort confirmation# so I figured there might be a chance they found out I lied). But I don't want her to be Mickey's freeloading guest at restaurants/dinner shows/character meals! Now my conscience is kicking in big time. I am wondering how I can get out of this now :S
princess_fiona said:3) I still haven't recovered from the realization admission would have been free for her to the parks/airfare/food if only we could've gone a month earlier