SilverLily
WHAT is going on???
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- Oct 10, 2001
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I totally agree with you, caitycaity. My DH and I are making more money now than before we had kids, but we are probably only spending about the same on entertainment, things, etc. because we are saving more.Originally posted by caitycaity
to be honest -- dh and i would contribute less to the economy with kids than we would without.
think about it:
right now we are dinks in our twenties with very little in savings. we choose to spend most of our money now b/c we can. we do have a limited amount of savings towards retirement, but that's it. we are big contributors to the economy.
when we have kids, we will be a bit older, and saving more towards our retirement. and with kids, of course, we will also start saving for their college funds. now having kids/not having kids will have no impact on our salary, so there is a finite amount. with kids -- we will end up saving more of our money than spending it as we would if we were single. we wouldn't be saving for anyone's college education.
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at any rate, to sum up my feelings on this:
1) i don't think it's fair that there is a per child tax credit
2) i realise that life (and the tax code) are not fair
3) i let my elected representatives know how i feel on this issue
4) regardless of number 2, i have the right to express my displeasure about number 1. if you don't like it, ignore me.![]()
I agree with all of your points (1 - 4). I don't have a problem with people expressing their displeasure with the tax code. You and others on this thread seem to have no problem getting your point across. I just think some posters should learn that they aren't going to get anywhere when they call parents breeders, however veiled the name-calling was. Childfree people who don't like the tax credit for children need parents to help them elect officials that will make these changes. It won't get childfree people anywhere to insult and be condescending to parents who may agree with them, but they were too busy ranting to notice!



I pump money into the economy and the government doesn't care!