inspired by the "i hate" thread...

[Sparx]

"cheaters" (relationships)
those of you who said that...have you been cheated on? or is it just the principle of the thing?

just curious.

 

[Fatphil32]

My best friend probably has cheated on every girl he's dated. He just thinks it's awesome to be able to say he got some from ___ [enter number] of girls. I really don't care, but that's his personal choice. Most of it's a security issue.

I hate weed. It ruins people's lives and it brings out the worst in people. My best friend [mentioned above] took some to my house today because he was planning on smoking it later when he went to this all-nighter thing and dropped it on the floor. Of course my mom found it.

 

[imabrat]

I haven't, but one of the things I can't tolerate is cheating. I can understand the drunk one-night-stand. I can forgive that but not forget.

Affairs, hook ups, things of that nature that are thought of before hand? I have no tolerance. Many affairs mean one partner is not satisfied, whether it be emotionally or sexually. Come talk to me and we'll work it out with counselling, whatever need be.

 

[Sparx]

i've been cheated on a few times.
and i've been the...ahem..."other woman."

i guess having been cheated on, i know that its just not worth it. i know it didn't make him any happier, he felt guilty. and it doesn't feel great being the other woman either.

i 100% do not believe "once a cheater, always a cheater" but i do believe, "if he/she will cheat with you, he/she will cheat on you."

i'm not a cheater. in fact, being the other woman that one time actually made me a more loyal girlfriend.

i guess i'm not taking relationships too seriously at my age, so i don't "hate" someone for cheating on me. we broke up, but i mean, i don't hate any of them.

i forgive everything, and i always give second chances(if they're asked for), but sometimes third or fourth or even fifth. i think everyone will be cheated on once, or everyone will cheat once, but thats just what i've seen.

its 3.10 am, and i've been up forever, so sorry if that was ramble-y and didn't make much sense.

 

[GoofysOnlyGirl]

I have been cheated on. I have also been the other women. I have never personally cheated though.

Personally I forgive way to much. I don't believe in "Once a cheater, always a cheater." I grew up watching my dad cheat on my mom pretty much. They are still together. I even went to theme parks with the "other women." I guess seeing them still together, and in love, and knowing the full situation behind WHY he did it(really long story I would rather not share...) I just give people the benefit of the doubt.

I still think it is 100% wrong, but I am open for forgiveness. You know?

 

[JarethDrakul]

Officially I haven't been cheated on as they dumped me to go out with someone else then when it didn't work they asked me back out again...that was my first proper relationship...I've had only one since 2006...happily Sinlge :-D.

 

[Babyjustrun]

I haven't been cheated on yet. Don't think I will with this guy, when things may come to an end he'll probably just talk to me about it, and if it was for another girl, he'd be with her the next day lol.
That basically sums up what happened with his ex...

I dunno, he's said that he hates cheaters too, but you can't really say you won't do anything till the moment presents itself.

I just think that if someone is constantly cheating on you, there was something wrong with your relationship in the first place, and not entirely their fault.

 

[JulielovesDisney]

I've never been cheated on, but I think it's the most vile and disgusting thing you could do to a person you care about.

I refuse to cheat on someone, or to be the "other woman", and I have been tempted to become the "other woman" on multiple occasions. And no matter how badly I want to be with a guy, I will refuse him if he has a girlfriend.

 

[Axel]

I've been cheated on. Epically.

Colin (douchebag extraordinaire) was my boyfriend for 9 months. On our 9 month anniversary, he gives me a "Dear Jane" letter saying that we should break up because we hardly see each other (this is right after we finally got back to the same school after he'd been gone for 6 months). That same day, I get a call from a friend asking me if Colin had broken up with me yet. I asked her if he'd been talking to her about doing so and she said "well, he's been dating me for about a month now." So a few of my friends beat the crap out of Colin (and by crap, I mean broke his nose). Turns out that he got the girl he cheated on me with pregnant, then cheated on her even through he knew she was preggers.

He's an ***.

 

[Captain Brain]

I have never been cheated on, myself. I just find the whole principle of the thing morally repugnant. One of my best friends was cheated on for a long time before she figured out, now she trusts no one in relationships.

 

[3mtn-kate]

Both. I have been cheated on but I've never cheated or been the "other woman"
and i really just hate the whole principal of the thing, i think that cheaters are just cowards that refuse to come and talk to their other about what's wrong so they go to other people just to get a cheap thrill...it's not cool.