justhat-
I really, really, really suggest you buy a sling today! Really!
You can order one from
http://mayawrap.com, or go here
http://mayawrap.com/s_distributors.php to find a local distributor. Or you could contact your local La Leche League for a local source for slings.
A sling is easier to use than a Baby Bjorn. It may seem confusing when you first take it out of the package, but if you watch the instructional video/dvd, it's very easy. You can be an expert in less than an hour.
I used a Baby Bjorn with DS, and loved it. I resisted getting a sling when my very high-maintenance DD was born, even though all of my friends were insisting I get one. I finally bought one when she was 5 months old, because I was concerned the Bjorn would be too hot for our Bahamas cruise in July. I have been kicking myself ever since for not buying one sooner. At first, I used both the sling and the Bjorn, switching off, but I used the Bjorn less and less as time went on. Now, it has been sitting unused for months.
I think the biggest disadvantage of the Bjorn is that the baby has to be upright, which isn't good for an infant for extended periods of time. With the sling, the baby can be in several positions. She can lay down to sleep or nurse, or she can sit up, facing in or out. Now that my DD is 15 months old, she rides on my hip, but I can also wear her on my back when I am cooking.
When we go to WDW, I try to keep DD in the sling rather than the stroller for naps, because you can't take the stroller onto rides and attractions, and you can't take it into any of the pavilions in Epcot.
As far as your baby not liking the sling, the only times I have heard of that happening was when the mom wasn't using it properly because she hadn't watched the instructional video. This is what happened to me, because a friend let me borrow one of her slings after DD was born. I tried it without learning how to use it properly, and DD and I both hated it. When I finally got my own and watched the dvd, I realized I had been wearing it wrong, and that was why DD was so uncomfortable.
Sorry to ramble on so much about this, but I truly believe that you and your DD would greatly benefit from a sling. They are a godsend for fussy babies.
Please let me know if I can be of any help.
Maureen