Conkozan
No, we are going for 10 days so it's not a short trip. I don't mind you asking

I did book the Visa Deal last year (have no idea what the cost was to be honest without digging out the info and I'm not sure I even have it). It was for 7 nights though so then there were costs for adding our extra nights on too since we stayed 9 nights last year too. I did a quick calculation with room only discounts (we used part of as room only) and UPH prices from last year (from memory since I can't find those prices anywhere now) and used the discount from last year which I know we had for some nights. Priced last year versus this year and it's more expensive (didn't use the Disney Visa price). Kids are the same price range for tickets too. We are also staying in poolview too at AKL versus Sav view too. I used the poolview rates as that's what I have booked. It would be even more of a difference (more expensive this year) if I ran the Sav view rates. I have no idea if any of that made sense.
I guess what I was saying in my first post is that the discount if they are percentages are more significant for deluxe resorts. I think sometimes codes are easier to apply to deluxe resorts too...more rooms still available. I have seen posts when codes come out of more value and moderate resorts having to switch to a different location due to no codes available at their first choice.
I looked at the numbers for the dining option too. There was a breakdown on the dining thread about whether it saves you money or not. We eat at Boma almost every night and H&V for the FDP and then one night at Prime Time so the dining plan isn't a great savings for us in that area either...I think the savings was like $3. DH and DS eat at Quest most days and they are included and lots of times we eat at Boma for breakfast or another character meal and don't eat lunch except a snack. I also have a list of about 15 things I have allergies too...one of which is pop so the snack is a waste for me. So...different needs for different families. And, the biggest factor for me would be the stress on educating DH on using the dining plan. DS13 would have to be the one I talked to there. He's more repsonsible than his father

He reads the maps after all when they are alone together. (I am very concerned about them going off to IOA/US, but DS will get them back!!)
The DDE card may work for us, but I'd have to upgrade my MYW ticket to an annual pass and the difference would have to be above general codes versus AP codes for that option to be worthwhile. Assuming either are available.
Bottom line...it will be more expensive for us this year without a code. I didn't even consider that we had an even better deal with the Disney Visa deal since I used last year's rates. I figure that was a once in a lifetime opportunity

And, I won't consider how much more we're paying when we had AKL for $94 per night due to FQ closing. That won't ever happen again.
My final comment: I suffer from OCD and spend too much time thinking about all of this
