I'm so excited and relieved!

Molly Meow

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Please don't jump on me for this. I just have to share and I have no "real" friends! LOL

DH is quitting his job November 5th. One day after his 5 year anniversary. They've made it pretty clear to him that they don't see him advancing there. He's been there 5 years and still isn't making even $10 an hour. He can't afford the health insurance they offer.

He doesn't have another job lined up yet. This is mainly due to the fact that his work schedule pretty much prohibits him scheduling interviews. If he calls in, he has to have a doctor's note.

He doesn't know what he wants to do. He's thinking about an apprenticeship. He doesn't know what field yet. There's a major housing boom going on here, so he'd probably find something pretty easily.

I just got my paralegal certificate, and I'm friends with a partner in a large law firm nearby. He's already told me they're holding a position for me starting November 1.

I'm just so happy because over the last few years, DH has gone from the happy, fun-loving man that I married, to the "don't talk to me, don't even look at me" grump that he is now.

On the vacation that we just took, he was back to normal. His job is sucking the life out of him. Working 10 days in a row with no overtime. Being "teased" by management that they can replace him at any time with someone making $4 an hour less. "California's an at-will state, ya know?"

Thank you for letting me share this. I'm just so thrilled that he'll be out from under their thumb. He's going to take his time and look for something that fits him better. My income will be enough to support us. We don't have any children or own our own home.

He also wants to join the Lion's Club, which his work schedule has never permitted him to do.

*Phew* I feel better now. We can't tell anyone we know because they all work with him. We're afraid that if word gets out, they'll fire him before he can quit, just so they don't have to pay him for his vacation or sick time.
 
Well that sounds just great, Molly. Very happy for you both. Hoping hubby's new career comes to him quickly, but if not right away, sounds like he can take the time to make it right for him. Best wishes to you both. :goodvibes
 
I hope he finds something much better Molly!! Sounds like the old job was depressing him. I'm sure better things are to come!! :banana:
 
I can't remember who I was talking to about this, but it was someone in the industry. There is a huge demand right now for skilled laborers - tile layers, plumbers, surveyers, welders, electricians.

Google "skilled labor shortage" and you can read all about it.

I believe the pay is pretty decent too! Well above the $10 range.

I had a friend who did an apprencticeship in tile laying and people were beating his door down with a stick!

Just a thought...I'm glad your husband is finally breaking free! Nothing is worth being that miserable for. Good luck to the both of you! :sunny:
 

DH just did that. He started his new job about 2 weeks ago and is loving the stress free environment of the new job. They are replacing him with 3 people at his old job. We may end up moving because of the new job, but, oh well, that is life!

I know brick layers are in HIGH demand in our area. A friend of ours sister was dating a guy who was doing brick laying for a summer job in college. Her mom was upset because she didn't think this was the kind of man for her baby. Well, he was making over $40/hour doing this and starting pay for his "chosen" career for his major was about $20,000. He stuck with the brick laying job and is planning on buying the business when the owner retires in another year or so.
 
Yes, I agree. Your husband needs to get out of that job. You spend so much of your life at work that it makes no sense to stay at one that makes you so miserable. Life is too short. Something better is in store for him. :flower: Best wishes that he finds his niche quickly.
 
Best of luck to you and your DH. Hope he finds a much better job real soon. I am also at a job that has no way of advancing, and the pay isn't the greatest, but since it is a high school the hours are great with DDs school hours. I'm home usually for every day she gets off.
 
Wow, best of luck to you and your husband. Keep us updated. What kind of work was he in.

Wisconsin is a at will state too. Kinda sucks doesn't it.
 
You should be happy! I wish you both the best.
 
Good for him. Best of luck. :sunny: Things can only go up from here.
 
Wow, thanks for all the encouragement and well wishes!

I was sort of nervous that we were doing something silly, but I figured, what do we have to lose? :)

OhMari - DH works for a major retailer doing janitorial work.
 
That is so awesome! We had a somewhat similar situation in the early years of our marriage and it turned out to be rather disastrous. DH worked for this nasty, abusive tyrant -- seriously, you wouldn't believe half the stuff he did if I told you. He was so abusive to DH that my normally happy, optimistic husband turned depressed and near-suicidal. For five years I kept on begging him to just quit, but he was so beaten down that he didn't think he'd ever be hired anywhere!

Anyway, congratulations! I wish you and your DH all the best. :goodvibes
 
I know I'm nowhere near you, but here on the coast of NC, there is a tremendous shortage of plumbers. We own a plumbing company. My husband and I are DESPERATE to find a plumber. Starting at $14/hr! I pray every day that we will find someone. He turns work away every day because we don't have the menpower to do it all!! It's the same way all over the county.
 
I was in the same situation with my husband. I was so glad when he quit because he left the exhausted, grumpy attitude with the bad job when he left! If he is miserable with his job it just seeps into family life no matter how hard they try to keep it seperate. Congradulations!

Dawn
 


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