i'm just so nyeh! (venting)

[polysisterchick]

my gosh, today was/is confusing and frustrating.


Friend 1 - Jesse.
Today, she had a debate. Jesse's partner, Angela, was told not to go with her plan by a "judge." So she agreed to go with Jesse's plan. During the speech, she goes with her own plan and leaves Jesse up there looking like a fool when it's her turn. Now Jesse says she doesn't care what others think about her but she contradicted herself. But because the entire 10th grade class was there, she felt humiliated. Some of the guys (who aren't that bright when it comes to certain matters) were mocking her. After the debate Jesse goes and locks herself up in the bathroom and well, i go to try to talk to her. Well, she's furiated, upset, and humilitated. She's complaining and I'm listening. Each time I try to hug her or pat her she pushes me. I mean, I get her somewhat calm but she becomes stoic. So yea, i don't know what else to do there.

Friend 2 - Lauren.
She's my absolute best friend. I'd die for her in a heartbeat. Recently she wants to run away and commit suicide because her family is falling apart.
Her parents are fighting, her oldest brother is somewhat of an alcoholic/parties all night, and they think her older brother is doing drugs. so yea. She's having issues.


so please tell me yalls days were better.

 

[Babyjustrun]

I spent my day alone.
For a lack of friends, and lack of friends that aren't busy.

 

[polysisterchick]

I spent my day alone.
For a lack of friends, and lack of friends that aren't busy.

 

[Tink-a-boo]

I spent it at school, boring. With alot of ppl who think im a geek

 

[Vannah]

Well, my day started by having to wake up at six to go to band sectionals.
Then, I was almost late to Science, where me and my friend Madison got bored because we were done with our work and had nothing to do.
After that, I went to English and read more of Animal Farm.
Then, I went to Advisory and watched about half an hour of Napoleon Dynamite and went to lunch.
Then, I went to History and watched five minutes of Gettysburg and about 45 minutes of Napoleon Dynamite. Me and Madison were really hyper in here.
Then, I went to Math and didn't get detention.
Then, I went to band and got really bored.
Finally, I went to Spanish and cleaned out my binder and talked to my friend Stephanie.
Now, I'm at home. I'm supposed to be packing, but I'm DISing instead.

 

[speedydisteen]

well my day sucked!
Today i had to stay home from school because of my ankle and i had a doctor's appointment. when i got up to go to the car i fell once again on my cast. all i can say is OWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Then my day got better. my newest BF came over and we watched a movie! I think i'm in love!
Feel better OP.

 

[coolshannie]

my gosh, today was/is confusing and frustrating.


Friend 1 - Jesse.
Today, she had a debate. Jesse's partner, Angela, was told not to go with her plan by a "judge." So she agreed to go with Jesse's plan. During the speech, she goes with her own plan and leaves Jesse up there looking like a fool when it's her turn. Now Jesse says she doesn't care what others think about her but she contradicted herself. But because the entire 10th grade class was there, she felt humiliated. Some of the guys (who aren't that bright when it comes to certain matters) were mocking her. After the debate Jesse goes and locks herself up in the bathroom and well, i go to try to talk to her. Well, she's furiated, upset, and humilitated. She's complaining and I'm listening. Each time I try to hug her or pat her she pushes me. I mean, I get her somewhat calm but she becomes stoic. So yea, i don't know what else to do there.

Friend 2 - Lauren.
She's my absolute best friend. I'd die for her in a heartbeat. Recently she wants to run away and commit suicide because her family is falling apart.
Her parents are fighting, her oldest brother is somewhat of an alcoholic/parties all night, and they think her older brother is doing drugs. so yea. She's having issues.


so please tell me yalls days were better.

I just needed to say this. If your best friend is even talking about committing suicide, you need to do what is best for HER even if it means risking your friendship, and tell her parents, your parents, or a trusted adult, or trusted teacher at school. Suicide is not anything to be taken lightly, even if you think they would never do it, you never know. You just have to think of it this way.. Would you rather have your friend upset for a bit or would you rather have your friend dead and you devestated as you knew there was something you could have done to prevent it? You have to be suportive of her every step of the way, but PLEASE make sure she gets help, because she really needs it. If you can tell I have been in a similar situation, trust me, you don't want to lose a friend that way.