Don't forget that your main goal is to have fun and enjoy yourself!!!!
I remember on my first trip to
Disneyland as an adult we were seated beside a woman waiting for a parade. She had a toddler in a stroller beside her sleeping. As the parade came down the street she started shaking him to wake him up. He started to cry and scream that he was tired and wanted to sleep and she kept telling him that he couldn't miss the parade. I felt like telling her to listen to her poor child and leave her child alone and enjoy the parade herself! I just did not understand this woman.
Then there are the obviously tired children crying to go home and the parents insisting that they go on more rides.
My favorite is the child who is afraid to go on a ride and the parent who insists that they should not be afraid and continues to insist that they go on the ride. When we were there in September, there was a hysterical boy who did not want to go on Buzz Lightyear and his mother just kept telling him that there was nothing to be scared of. I know that there is nothing to be scared of and so did she but obviously he did not agree and he was so upset and it was very upsetting to the rest of us in line. I did not have any children with me but you could see some of the children around us getting upset because he was upset.
I mean it is fine to try to talk your child into something when you know when they will enjoy it but when they are crying and screaming, it's just a ride!
The first time we took my daughter was when she was three and one of the first rides we went on was Pinnochio. Well, it totally freaked her out and she refused to go on any rides that were basically inside.
At first my husband and I were a little upset and then we realized that the reason we came to Disneyland was for her. So so we just went with the flow and went on rides that she was willing to go on and if we wanted to go on a ride she didn't, we went on ourselves while the other one stayed with her.
She also wouldn't go on Storybook because she refused to go through the whale's mouth even though she could see the other side. Kids!