bumbershoot
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Somehow it seems like others tend to get room refunds when we don't. Not sure if they just complain more about all the little stuff or what.
DH is the king of appropriate compensation. Be firm, be polite, be calm. If necessary, mention that you'd be happy to bring in the other spouse who is NOT calm or polite at that time, not to threaten, but just to remind them that you're being calm and polite and can stay that way until things are resolved. But do NOT give up if it's important to you.
Also, don't tell them what you want; let them come up with the compensation. Because they will usually (if you're a normal, realistic person) come up with much better compensation than you could come up with. When the housekeeping lady after our wedding (NOT at a Disney property, but at a Courtyard Marriot) went into hubby's room, where he had set up late checkout, hours before his checkout time, and cleaned out the fridge by trying to throw away a ton of leftover (delicious scrumptious and EXPENSIVE) wedding cake.....(by the way, he walked in, after we got back from the place where we actually spent our wedding night while keeping my Courtyard room for relatives and he kept his for tuxes and cake LOL, and was able to stop her, and salvaged about half of what he had in the fridge but hadn't made it into the garbage bag yet)......he let the manager come up with compensation. Which was a free weekend there whenever we wanted, and a new wedding topper cake for our 1st anniversary. We are reasonable people, so we had them get the cake from a different bakery, one that also does weddings and has a GREAT reputation, but one that was a bit more reasonable financially than our baker was.
While negotiating all of this (I think he got a refund on one of his 2 nights in that room as well), he stayed QUIET after telling his story to the manager. Let them get uncomfortable and talk, don't fill in the uncomfortable silence.