Money NO object????
To start off I'd have you take me along to be your personal assistant/guide!
Seriously, I'd start by staying at the Grand Californian. In a room with a view for WOC show.
Dessert seating for Fantasmic.
Disney tours that you'd be interested in.
Variety of Character meals for the kids to enjoy.
Meals that aren't fast food.
Shopping where they ship items to your home.
Away from
Disneyland....
SanDiego for a few days to see the Zoo and SeaWorld.
Universal Studios for a day and a drive by for Hollywood.
If it's in the summer months you might consider Magic Mountain. I haven't been there for YEARS, so I don't know much about this one.
Going to Disneyland with out worrying about a budget is fun for sure! We did it once in 2004, when we took our two grown son's and their families. For a total of 7 people. We got two rooms at the GCH and did anything we wanted to do for a week. After Disneyland we went to SanDiego for three days. It was the best multi-family vacation we have ever had.
Geemo