idk what to do...

[2HOT2touch]

This is kind of a rant, but i also don't know what to do.

I started going out with my friend's friend. We have been together for a little over 2 weeks. He really makes me happy and I make him happy. But our mutual friend doesn't like us together. she made a huge scene about it in the begining but then she for the most part got over it. well, my bf and I go to 2 different boarding schools, they are about 20 mins away from each other. so I only really get to see him on weekends, so i went to see him on sunday at the mall. we celebrated his birthday which was yesturday and valentine's day. Well our friend found out about it and got pretty mad for some reason and she made his birthday worse than what it should have been. And today is the 11th aniversary of my father's death and shes not talking to me, and my bf's not talking to me either. I don't know what to do, I'm already really depressed, and i don't need her making things worse.

 

[ktbutterfly2011]

Can you call him? Talk to him. Don't wait for him to talk to you. If there's no communication in long distance relationships, they die.

Sorry about your father, this day must be hard for you and your friends aren't making it any easier.

All I can say is Commuication!

 

[VolleyballQt07]

aw hun! im sorry. just try to ignore her as much as possible. i havent experirenced a death to a close family member like you but my cousins did and i know how hard it is for them on the anniversary. maybe its a good thing she hasnt talked to you today? after all, she could make things worse like you said and make today a living hell for you but maybe its not so bad she hasnt talked to ya. as for your bf, i really dont know what to tell ya, im sorry. just think positive about it. maybe he thought you were too depressed to talk? or maybe hes busy? and maybe he'll call you later today? but there will always be someone on here to talk to!

 

[2HOT2touch]

I talk to him everyday. BUt we don't talk on the phone we normally have to talk through aim cuz I don't have service at school and he can't find his cell, to call my dorm. but he isn't responding to my IMs. I know he got in a fight with our mutual friend last night but I don't know exactly what happened. but now he isnt talking to me.

 

[Disney Princess 91]

thats so sad im so sorry but really i think your friend should be happy for you. and if not then they are not being fair to you at all. i think you should talk to your freind and ask whats up. because that really isnt fair. if your bf makes you happy then thats great and your friend should think that as well. just talk to her (if its a him im sorry) and find out why their so upset and maybe by getting everything out on the table it will fix things. hope i helped if not im sorry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[pigletgirl]

Did you let your mutual friend know that you wanted to have a relationship with this guy? Alot of times girls will be angry and hurt because you took something away from them, that they did not expect, so that is why they become defensive with their words and actions.

I think you need to sit down with her, and discuss the events that have happened in the past 2-3 weeks.

Friend problems are never fun, but if they're worked out, then it'll make you feel alot better inside.

and good luck!

 

[2HOT2touch]

i talked to her about it when she had a problem with it in the first place. she said I wasn't good enough for him. She knew we were talking, and she knew I liked him. but i didn't even know he liked me until the day before we started dating, and we told her the next day. And i have been trying not to talk to her about him or talk about him with her around, so that i don't rub it in her face or w/e. so I didn't tell her i was going to meet him at the mall, cuz i felt like she wouldnt want to know. but i hate that we feel like we need her approval, and he thinks is stupid too, but she has way of getting to people and i hate it. it's my life, my relationship, and she should have nothing to do with it, but thats not the case. because aparently im not good enough for him, but some random girl off the street would be.

 

[polysisterchick]

does your mutual friend happen to have a crush on your bf?
i dunno, but it sounds that way to me.

i'd say continue to try and communicate with him and her.
i hope you get things all straightened out
Good luck

 

[2HOT2touch]

thats what we thought, but she never said anything to either of us, so there was no way for us to know. I talked to my bf last night after i got back from my semi formal that he couldnt go to cuz his advisor wouldnt let him off campus. and i miss him so muchh. he is just as confused as i am as to why she got so mad the other day. but at the dance atleast she was civilized to me. everything is starting to go back to normal. thanks everyone!!

 

[dopeygirl156]

See thats going on talk to both of them. Ask your friend why she can't be happy for you guys, if he make you happy and you make him happy she sould be happy for the both of you. See why your boyfriend isn't talking to you al well. I'am sorry about your dad, it must be very sad.