Yay, the ring is fixed!!!! The sizing balls make it fit perfectly around my finger, and it doesn't slide around and flop side to side. It is hard as heck to get on and off, but with a little wiggling I can manage. I told my mom that I would rather endure a few seconds of pain taking it on and off twice a day, rather than worrying about it falling off all day. Plus, I just LOVE the way it fits/sits on my finger with the balls- beauty requires some pain I suppose. The jeweler said that the bottom of my finger is just really really thin, so if it's not tight over my knuckle it will roll and roll around. What I wouldn't kill for normal sized fingers-- curse you size 3.5!!
Anyway, thanks for your help everyone. I know I can ALWAYS count on the Dis!!