I think I lost the magic

stemikger

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Well it is with a great sadness that I think my fascination with Disney is not what it used to be. In other words I think I lost the magic.

The other day my wife and I were discussing the budget for our 2006 vacation and after going to Disney for two years in a row, I was kind of luke warm about the idea of going this summer.

A funny thing happened to me last year, I was on some of the rides I went on the year before and felt like "Been there done that" kind of feeling.

I felt like the excitment and newness was gone. In fact at certain parts of the trip I felt like I was just going through the motions. It had nothing to do with the trip, and there were parts that were still cool, but it was more something within me.

I have been such a Disney nut since I was a kid and now I feel like - some of the people I used to get mad at. I kind of feel like I don't need to go again. I seen what I had to see and now it's time to move on.

The only problem is - is that we don't know what else to do and for the money Disney is the most economical and carefree (we don't rent a car and always use Disney Transportation). We stay at the value resorts so it is a pretty inexpensive trip compared to some other vacations. I am not the type of guy to drive very far and I hate renting a car on my vacations. That is what I liked so much about Disney. Once I was there I didn't need to worry about driving or in my case getting lost.

Who knows maybe it is just a phase I am going through, but time will tell. Can someone help me get the magic back.
 
*whispers*

Try Universal

*shifty eyes*

:smooth:
 

Try Universal

Actually that was my first thought, but I have a feeling it will be a lot more expensive then staying at Pop Century.

I haven't looked into it yet, but I am under the impression that Universal hotels are the way Disney used to be years ago before the moderates and the values came into the market.
 
There's nothing wrong with taking a break. There are a lot of places in the world to see, and you just might find that after a while away, the magic returns.
 
Can you go to WDW at a different time of year than you are used to? Early December is a great time - lot of holiday decorations and different shows (Candlelight Processional, etc.).

Or Spring when the Flower and Garden show is at Epcot. Great flowers and lots of guest speakers.

Or Fall for the Food and Wine festival.

Maybe you could rent a car for the day and go to Universal or Sea World.

Or maybe just try some of the things not at the parks. Miniature golf, or one of the water parks. Or how about just taking a good book and relax by the pool for a few hours.

We always try to do something new and different on each trip back to WDW. Maybe a new resturant or a new ride. It really keeps the magic coming back for us.

Hope you find something to help bring the magic back as well.
 
The only way to get the magic back is to go somewhere else for your vacation..... You will soon see what you're missing and you'll be dying to get back to Disney :banana:
 
Williamsburg, Va. is our 2nd favorite spot next to Disney as well as Lancaster/Hershey Pa. For an all inclusive we go up to Woddloch Pines in the Poconos. I did Disney 2 years in a row and although I still love it :goodvibes we do take a break so we can appreciate it more the next time. This year we're heading off to Lancaster. Good luck deciding.
 
You sound so much like me. I have been a disney nut for so long, way before I had kids.
We were going every year for the past 9 years! 2 years ago we took a dear friend with us. She was dying from Cancer. The trip was amazing. We had the best time. She had her 2 kids with her. it was a trip of a life time. After that I didn't want to go back. So last year we didn't. We still went to Florida. But went to St. Augustine and Silver Springs. Then stayed at my mom's for a week. It was a nice change.
Now it is time to start planning once again. And like you I have no real push to go. At times I get a little excited. Of course the kids are bugging big time they are 7 and 10. So I guess we will go....Just hoping once the trip is planned I will be more excited.
 
As much as I love Disney, I don't think I would enjoy going every year! There are so many other wonderful places to visit. Why don't you take a break, 2 or 3 years, and I'll be the "magic" will come back!

I always start feeling the itch to see Disney after I've been gone for 2 or 3 years. We just went last May (had such a wonderful time!) so now my head is swimming with all the other places we can go. Disney's the furthest thing from my mind right now.

Don't feel guilty! Just take a break...do something easy like renting a cabin or a cruise and enjoy yourself...
 
SDFgirl said:
As much as I love Disney, I don't think I would enjoy going every year! There are so many other wonderful places to visit. Why don't you take a break, 2 or 3 years, and I'll be the "magic" will come back!

I always start feeling the itch to see Disney after I've been gone for 2 or 3 years. We just went last May (had such a wonderful time!) so now my head is swimming with all the other places we can go. Disney's the furthest thing from my mind right now.

Don't feel guilty! Just take a break...do something easy like renting a cabin or a cruise and enjoy yourself...

My thoughts exactly. THere are many other exciting and fun places to visit in the world. The fun comes when you're with your famiy enjoying each other's company.
 
stemikger said:
Actually that was my first thought, but I have a feeling it will be a lot more expensive then staying at Pop Century.

I haven't looked into it yet, but I am under the impression that Universal hotels are the way Disney used to be years ago before the moderates and the values came into the market.


NO not really. The prices are sometimes better than a moderate price. If you have AAA or if you break down and get an Universal annual pass (you break even after two-three days in the park-I think its only 169 or something like that).

Plus you get free Express pass for all the rides at onsite Unviersal hotels. That means very short lines all the time.

The hotels are nicer and newer than the Disney hotels as well.
 
tialucy said:
The only way to get the magic back is to go somewhere else for your vacation..... You will soon see what you're missing and you'll be dying to get back to Disney :banana:

Exactly!
 
i'm sorry and i hope you regain the magic but i have 2 words for you ....

club med :cool1:

we've been about 10 times to 5 different clubs - singles, couples and families. they are affordable and FUN!!!

since 1998, the only places we've gone on vacation are club med and disney!
 
stemikger said:
Actually that was my first thought, but I have a feeling it will be a lot more expensive then staying at Pop Century.

I haven't looked into it yet, but I am under the impression that Universal hotels are the way Disney used to be years ago before the moderates and the values came into the market.


Like Cindy B said, the resorts are more but the passes are less, so it averages out, and they have some good packages. I won't lie, it's not as magical, but we still have a blast. It's smaller, and easier to get around. If you stay off site, parking and getting to the entrance is a breeze. It's just much more relaxing and the atmosphere with places like Finnegan's and Mythos, etc. makes us feel like a nice happily married couple instead of a tired mom running after fast passes, and a geeky Dad talking into a walkie talkie, LOL. It's a nice change. Check out the Univ Board.
 
We enjoy taking breaks from WDW as when we go back again, we love it even more! We have been going to WDW every other year for the last few years...the year off we have been going somewhere completely different-caribbean cruise one year, Las Vegas another, the next one will hopefully be Hawaii.
I love Disney but there is a lot more to see in the world than just Disney so we take turns! Try doing something different, and unrelated to WDW. When you head back to the world the next time, I think you will have that magic once again. :)
 
You know what....I know EXACTLY how you feel! :rolleyes: A few months ago, it hit me too. My love for Disney was gone! :( Here's the strange thing though, another poster said to you that after a few years of not being there, you may get the itch again.....well I haven't been since 2001 and I no longer want to go anymore. :guilty: I'm kinda over it you know. I was so looking forward to "honeymooning" in Disney next year after DH and I renew our vows on our 15th, but I decided to go to Stone Mountain GA instead. Economically it's MUCH cheaper for us, about an hour closer, and the kosher eating is MUCH better for us to chose from as where in Disney you have to order in advance and only have a couple offsites restaurants to dine in.
Stone Mountain in itself is just a little minature theme park and can be done in a day if you get an early enough start. :goodvibes It sits about 30 minutes outside of Atlanta allowing for so many other fun things to do...the zoo, the cyclorama, the botanical gardens, the world of coke, the underground, and now opening tomorrow, the NEW aquarium!! :cheer2: :cool1:
You have so many options on other things out there to do...don't worry about it. :blush: Who knows, maybe for you after a couple of years away from Disney, you will get the desire to go again, we're all different you know. For me, I'm done....period....and I really am okay with that. I was thinking about doing Universal myself, but again, the kosher eating came into play. I can always just go to a grocery store and buy stuff for DH and I, but every now and then on vacation, I like someone to wait on me you know. :p
Let us know if you need help finding places to go, I know you're in New York, but I'll send you a link to Stone Mountain if you wish.

Blessings,

Denise :flower3:
 
Disney Ella said:
There's nothing wrong with taking a break. There are a lot of places in the world to see, and you just might find that after a while away, the magic returns.


Yep. as much as I love Vegas, after 4 trips in 3 years, we have been away for 5 years. It was starting to feel exactly like you described. Take a break.
 


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