Please don't give up yet

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As someone else said, start by joining your September vacation board. If you ask detailed questions there or anywhere on the forum, you will get great answers.
The LCP charts for September will be out soon after Disney releases the September hours. That's always the hardest (and longest) thing to wait to wait for! Once those are out, things will start to slip into place.
I remember expecting a little more once I signed up. But, once I took my time to go through all of his material, I totally got it. I also remember thinking "this is it?", thinking there were those 6 quick steps and I was done. But, there is so much more. There are so many links...from dining to resorts, to parks and attractions. It really does take a good long time to read it all. Start with each step, read each article that is relevant. This is probably a good time to go through the dining section and decide on which places you'd like to eat. He has tips for everything, but you do need to take the time to explore and figure out his system. It's not going to be given to you....as in his system won't spit out what do do and when. It's up to you to make the most of his material.
Again..hop onto the forums over there. You will get tons of great advice. People on your Sept. vacation forms are in the same boat you are, so join in the fun over there.
Most of all...have fun planning. Once you find your way around, it will all click.