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[Tigger&Tink]

thanks

 

[MagicalMom]

I think I would be really hurt if my uncle didn't come to my wedding b/c his girlfriend was sick.

 

[danacara]

I can't follow, maybe I've been staring at the screen too long already today. But good luck to your sister.

 

[captJack88]

So if you were getting married ( I don't really know you or if you are married, but for arguments sake lets say you're not) and were having a party, she wouldn't leave her boyfriend at home to go, wether he was sick or not? I know its not his sister, but it is still family. JMHO, but I think if the shoe was on the other foot, this wouldn't be an issue. I do hope your sister feels better!

 

[GoofyPrincess]

Sorry - Just a female opinion! (But my hubby agrees!)

I have to admit that I think he should go, but I do hope they are able to get help with their child so he/she is not exposed and Mom can get some rest!

Hope everyone feels better soon!

 

[helenabear]

If it were me, I would hope that my husband would go to the wedding w/o me (provided it was possible). Just because I am sick, doesn't mean he should miss out on a family event. JMO

 

[bumcat]

He should go to the wedding but if I were your sister I would be more concerned (since they are living together, I think) that he leaves her while she is very sick to go get drunk with others.
Sorry, IMO he aint a keeper.

 

[DD2Disney]

There are two very seperate issues here. One being the drinking. If that is what she doesn't agree with than maybe she should leave him. But the whole wedding thing..that is just an excuse IMO wanting him to stay home because you are sick is just selfish. I mean a girl's wedding day is HER day. Whether your sister agrees with how she spends or celebrates it or not. JMO

Tricia

 

[Tigger&Tink]

Thanks guys and gals,,,,,she is starting to think MAYBE she was a bit harsh on the wedding,,but is still fuming that he left today at 2:30 and is not back yet,,,,,,BUMCAT she is agreeing with YOU on the going out to get drunk while she is sick,,she was hoping it would just be for a couple hours,,but as we can see ,,,,,

well that will have to be her choice,,,BUT thanks for all your replies

TINK

 

[sweet angel]

I think he should be "allowed" to go to the wedding.

When I'm sick, I prefer to be left alone. But that's just me.

 

[Beth76]

If she's ready to leave him over this situation (which I admit, doesn't really make sense to me) then there's probably some merit behind that thinking. Generally speaking, I don't see why he needs to stay home and not attend the wedding. But, there seems to be some other bigger issues. Good luck to everyone involved.