I need help!

dopeygirl156

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Okay allof my friends come to me for the advice. Andmy friend needed my help with his girlfriend and i didn't know what to do. The thing was that his girlfriend thought that he joked around to much. And i told him not to joke around to much but he said that he coldn't do that because joking around was who he is, and he can't change who he is. And i have no idea what to tell him. He is really happy with her and i don't want her to break up with him. What should i tell him. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
 
Tell him maybe to take the joking down a notch...when he is around her. Or just tell him to really talk to her about why she dosen't like it, and what EXACTLY she's unhappy with.
Hoped that helped :goodvibes
 

I totally agree with him, he's obviously someone who jokes around so why should he change that? If the girl doesn't like him joking around then obviously they're not meant to be together!
 
I would tell him to let her go. If she can't accept who he is, it's not worth it. If this is who he is, she obviously doesn't like the real him. Why would you want to be with someone who is trying to change you?
 
TinkerTracy said:
Tell him maybe to take the joking down a notch...when he is around her. Or just tell him to really talk to her about why she dosen't like it, and what EXACTLY she's unhappy with.
Hoped that helped :goodvibes

Well the not joking around part won't work, she wants him to stop period. Not joking around at all, and i think if she really liked him she would exept him for him and not try to change him. But i will try the other part, thanks.
 
minnie_2006 said:
I totally agree with him, he's obviously someone who jokes around so why should he change that? If the girl doesn't like him joking around then obviously they're not meant to be together!
i know she also thinks that he thinks that she's a slut and he doesn't, but she won't believe him.
 


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