I would tell your daughter that she needs to purchase it for you. Let her know how much she is saving on by having free Grammy daycare service.[/QUOTE]
No where in the post did the OP say she was providing this service for free!!! It boggles my mind how much people on these boards assume. I have a good friend who pays her MIL law $500 a month to babysit. She pays because she know her child is getting good, individualized care with Grandma. Even if the OP is not getting paid, it is her right to do so... she didn't ask for opinions on that.
OP, I haven't had to go through the new born car seat process in a long time, but the scerena(?) looks like a good deal. The reviews are excellent. I even put a couple of these on my "future baby wish list" for grandma/dad/babysitter.
Congrats on the new baby!!!