I need a hug- Vent

[disneydance]

Ok so I've been just having a tough time and I dont feel very comtorable discussing this stuff with many people but I just need to vent so here I begin/

Ok so I guess I'll start with one of my "best friends" Chloe I've known her for a year and I think she hates me I dont know why but I just have that gut feeling she does. I mean she has to dis me over everything I mean I was at a my friend lake party and I was wearing a swimsuit and Chloe just had to tell me , after 20 people told me they loved it... How she hated and how I should have never bought it. Then a few friends of mine overheard her and got mad at her she was like so. She also has to tell me how she hates what I'm wearing when 20 other people tell me they love it.I try to be nice to her and all but she really just has to be rude to me over everything. I mean she has to tell me how much I suck and singing which yes I know I suck at singing but do I really care no. Then I try asking another friend if Chloe is mad at me or something and they all say no. Then they say quit making drama. Which really hurts me because I want to know is what Chloe has against me so I can make it better. So then only one of my 40 friends actually believes me. Ok thats one vent.

Now the next one is about a friend which decisions have really hurt me, another friend and our choir and probally many more people. This boy was my best guy friend but then started going down the wrong track during that time me and my friend Jessica continued to hang out with him. We saw it coming but we just wouldnt believe. His great ambition was to become a member of a gang. He would tell me and Jessica that but we kinda never believed it. Well one day we go to school and the school had been broken into and someone had stolen alot of the choir teachers stuff. From his laptop to his lights. Well we heard a few week later they found who found it but he didnt say who it was. So me and my friend Jessica were on the bus home from a track meet and we get a text from my friend Kaitlyn saying Frankie got expelled. So then we were in shock so Jessica text back asking why? and Katleyn says he was caught jumping other people. So a few days later we were in the lunch room and my friends started to talking about how much of an idiot Frankie is and how stupid he must be... Which Frankie was my closest guy friend ever so I was kinda defending him since I had know he had, had a hard year since his parents were divorced. So there like so thats why he stole our choir teachers stuff and me and Jessica both said he got caught jumping people which is extremely bad and all but we thought he hadnt broke into the school. So then we learn the truth that he had broken into the school.The fact has hurt me ever since. He lives by the dance studio and one day my mom was driving me home by from practice and he was outside waiving at me. I really dont want to see his face since hes hurt everyone by stealing all the that stuff but especially me and Jessica since we were such close friends with him. Ok so I've been extremely stressed out about it and makes cry just thinking about it.


Ok so I just need a hug

 

[PurpleDucky]

I'm sorry about your friend Frankie. That really sucks..
Maybe if you keep in touch with him, you might convince him to start heading towards the right path again.
I know it's hard to talk to him after what he did, but after going through that divorce. He might just need something to keep him steady and forget about what's going on. That's why me might've been doing those things with these other people.

 

[disneydance]

I'm sorry about your friend Frankie. That really sucks..
Maybe if you keep in touch with him, you might convince him to start heading towards the right path again.
I know it's hard to talk to him after what he did, but after going through that divorce. He might just need something to keep him steady and forget about what's going on. That's why me might've been doing those things with these other people.

Yes but I'm just so hurt about it I know it may sound stupid and all but I'm just cry thinking about and I think I may go a little over board and over react if I'm around him. I mean he goes around town tagging things with his nick name. But I mean I want to be there for him but I'm also kinda scared of him after that I'm sorry if that sounds stupid...

 

[MonorailDude]

With the Chloe situation, you need to just lock yourself in a room with her and find out what her deal is. If I've learned anything, it's that you can't go on pretending like problems don't exist or else they'll just keep growing worse.

And with your friends Frankie, the best thing you could do is to not give up on him. Somewhere in him is the old Frankie you used to know. If he refuses any of your kindness or help, then you can ignore him if you so wish. But otherwise, he's probably really confused and scared in his mind. Considering that his goal of joining a gang just got him expelled. Don't give up on him unless he proves you wrong. Everybody needs somebody to lean on.

 

[disneydance]

With the Chloe situation, you need to just lock yourself in a room with her and find out what her deal is. If I've learned anything, it's that you can't go on pretending like problems don't exist or else they'll just keep growing worse.

And with your friends Frankie, the best thing you could do is to not give up on him. Somewhere in him is the old Frankie you used to know. If he refuses any of your kindness or help, then you can ignore him if you so wish. But otherwise, he's probably really confused and scared in his mind. Considering that his goal of joining a gang just got him expelled. Don't give up on him unless he proves you wrong. Everybody needs somebody to lean on.

I think there is that old Frankie inside of him the Frankie who doesnt care if isnt wearing the coolest hat in town etc. I really saw that when he was in my science class with me and Jessica last year we had so much fun since it was such a small class. But with Chloe I'm kinda scared of that but I see my self as being the next Becca(a girl she wrote a note to saying Oh by the way I hate you and I dont want to be your friend anymore...) if I continue to let this go on

 

[disneydance]

With the Chloe situation, you need to just lock yourself in a room with her and find out what her deal is. If I've learned anything, it's that you can't go on pretending like problems don't exist or else they'll just keep growing worse.

And with your friends Frankie, the best thing you could do is to not give up on him. Somewhere in him is the old Frankie you used to know. If he refuses any of your kindness or help, then you can ignore him if you so wish. But otherwise, he's probably really confused and scared in his mind. Considering that his goal of joining a gang just got him expelled. Don't give up on him unless he proves you wrong. Everybody needs somebody to lean on.

I think there is that old Frankie inside of him the Frankie who doesnt care if isnt wearing the coolest hat in town etc. I really saw that when he was in my science class with me and Jessica last year we had so much fun since it was such a small class. But with Chloe I'm kinda scared of that but I see my self as being the next Becca(a girl she wrote a note to saying Oh by the way I hate you and I dont want to be your friend anymore...) if I continue to let this go on

 

[diva122094]

o mi gosh. here is a hug.
with the chloe thing,i think yoiu should confrount her about it and ask her what is wrong.if she doesnt want to answer you then she isnt a real friend.this is just my opinion.
with frankie i also think you should confrount him and talk to him about what he has been doing and see if he wants to see someone about it and talk to his parents.
here is another hug.

 

[disneydance]

o mi gosh. here is a hug.
with the chloe thing,i think yoiu should confrount her about it and ask her what is wrong.if she doesnt want to answer you then she isnt a real friend.this is just my opinion.
with frankie i also think you should confrount him and talk to him about what he has been doing and see if he wants to see someone about it and talk to his parents.
here is another hug.

Ok heres the promblem with Chloe is I have tried confronting her and she always says she has nothing against me. Which is really hard for me to believe since seem to find it fun to tell me everything wrong about me. Then whenever I ask her she just says nothing and tells me I'm making drama... Which I'm seriously not trying to I just want to know the truth. With Frankie I think I will confront possibly tommorrow I'll go to his house if we have a break or something like that. But his parents dont seem to care about and I think Frankie may listen to me about it more than others...

 

[AmandaSparks730]

*hug*

Dancing makes me feel better in situations like these.

Dance for your sorrows, for your pain.

It helps, kinda.

 

[disneydance]

*hug*

Dancing makes me feel better in situations like these.

Dance for your sorrows, for your pain.

It helps, kinda.

Thats really good advice I know I'm always happier when I'm dancing and thanks for the hug Amanda.

 

[AmandaSparks730]

Thats really good advice I know I'm always happier when I'm dancing and thanks for the hug Amanda.

You're welcome

Dance de-stresses me if I have a bad day at school.

 

[llama62]

 

[EeyoreFan1]

Hope everything works out.