Dear Gary,
I am so sorry for your loss. I know this was a difficult note for you to write and notice that the time you've posted it means you are up very late. It's early evening where I am and that's what's allowed me to be the first to reply to your sad news. Although I lost my precious husband seven years ago, I have no special words of wisdom to make things better for you. I certainly wish I did. No special wisdom, but a few suggestions--let friends help; try to sleep--but don't worry when you can't; try to eat a bite even when you don't feel hungry--but don't force yourself because you'll know what you need when you need it. It may take some time to find your balance in a world knocked off center, but you will. I wish you well as you care for your daughter. I know you will get a flood of notes when Karen's DIS friends in the UK wake up in a few hours. May you find comfort, strength, and peace in your wonderful memories.
Best Wishes,
Susan Yates