I have a question....

[Disneylover79]

SO a little back story....on of my BF (she was in my wedding) is getting married in April and she is having a small "family only" wedding party...I completely understand....her MOH is not the type to throw a bachelorette party....

SO the question is can I throw a bachelorette party even though I am not in her wedding party? I know she would love to have one....tell me what you think...

 

[The Mystery Machine]

SO a little back story....on of my BF (she was in my wedding) is getting married in April and she is having a small "family only" wedding party...I completely understand....her MOH is not the type to throw a bachelorette party....

SO the question is can I throw a bachelorette party even though I am not in her wedding party? I know she would love to have one....tell me what you think...

Just ask her. Are you invited to her wedding? Because that would be weird if you were not.

 

[NHdisneylover]

I would call or email the MOH directly and nicely let her know that if she does not throw a bachelorette party (just say you know that is not something everyone wants to do or feels comfortable doing and you were not sure if she would or not) that you would love to throw one if she doesn't mind but that you do not want to step on any toes if it would bother her. If she is good with it, then YEAH party on.

 

[PigletsPal2]

I think it's a lovely guesture on your part; just be sure that she doesn't then feel obligated to include you in the wedding party - that she knows you're throwing this party just because you love her.

Again, very sweet and generous of you.

Queen Colleen

 

[klacey1]

I would call or email the MOH directly and nicely let her know that if she does not throw a bachelorette party (just say you know that is not something everyone wants to do or feels comfortable doing and you were not sure if she would or not) that you would love to throw one if she doesn't mind but that you do not want to step on any toes if it would bother her. If she is good with it, then YEAH party on.

I agree with this. I also wouldn't make it a surprise-- after getting the all-clear from the MOH, I'd call the bride and let her know that you understand the wedding is small, but you'd love to help celebrate by throwing her a party. Get her okay, too.

 

[Sugardimples]

I wouldn't do it. The bride made her choice. If the MOH doesn't want to do it, it doesn't get done.

 

[Liberty Belle]

I would call or email the MOH directly and nicely let her know that if she does not throw a bachelorette party (just say you know that is not something everyone wants to do or feels comfortable doing and you were not sure if she would or not) that you would love to throw one if she doesn't mind but that you do not want to step on any toes if it would bother her. If she is good with it, then YEAH party on.

 

[Hannathy]

Why do you have to call it a bacherlorette party?

Just tell her you want to get all your girlfriends together for a girls night out and you want to treat her. Why slap a label on something for no good reason. This way you also get to invite who you want, I'm sure there are probably a couple other friends who aren't in the wedding that you would like to come if the wedding party is very small, and you don't have to invite (unless you want to) those who are and you may not know well -like a grooms younger sister or something.