I hate this

[Serena]

My dd's bf called earlier this morning. He had been thrown out of his house at 1am because his dad got drunk again. He had been out all night. He called and I went to get him and brought him here.

That would be okay if I didn't have to leave for work in a few minutes. I don't know what to do with him or who to call. He's sleeping on my couch right now. All 6'7" of him on my 5 1/2 foot couch.

This is not good.

I guess it's time to find out where my h is.

 

[lisajl]

Oh boy Serena, I am so sorry that is going on.

How old is this kid? Is this a regular occurrence?

Lisajl

 

[The Sweetness]

He's better off being a little cramped on your couch than in the street, or in a house with his drunk and pos. abusive fam. You're doing a good thing, and I hope everything turns out okay for him and your DD

 

[Lars624]

I hope that you're able to work something out this morning. Just know that you are doing the right thing........he needed you & you were able to help him. {{hugs}}

 

[Dan Murphy]

Hoping things get worked out, Laurie, both short term, today, and long term for the boy's sake. A sad state of affairs for sure. {{Hugs}}

 

[JasonLyons]

kill the boy, hide his body and tell your daughter you havent seen him then after the trial tell Charlie Manson the dis says hi

 

[Fantasia Girl]

Thank goodness you are there for him, these must be hard times for him as well. I am sorry you have to go through this, my family went through this with my best friend when we were in high school.


Jason...you are too funny

 

[Tiggeroo]

I know my dd is 18yo and a college student and I'm still uncomfortable going out and leaving her and her bf in the house. Although since she graduated from high school at 17 I have started doing this. At that point I considered her an adult. If your dd was serious about this young man I would also be concerned because of his family background, and have some serious talks. As somebody who comes from an addiction background it just complicates things in your life and makes you grow up early. Not always a good thing, until you are older and get it together. You should find out some alanon meetings for him, and get recommendations for counseling.

 

[NHAnn]

((hugs)) Laurie, for you and your DD and her BF

 

[browneyes]

As someone that was kind of in your dd's bf friends shoes at one time, I think he'll respect you for your kindness to do anything too awful to upset you. He'll be afraid he'll lose the 1 constant good thing in his life to foul up.

But since he's a hormonal teenage boy, I'd still put the fear of God in him when he comes over.

 

[Keli]

I think you are right in trying to find our where your h is and get him to come over to the house while you are at work or take the boy with him. I feel like you are doing a good thing for this boy, he needs someone to care in his life. But if he and your dd have a fairly serious relationship then I wouldn't feel comfortable leaving them at the house together without adult supervision. It could cause your good deed to have negative reprocussions.

 

[mhopset]

Do they still make chastity (sp) belts?

 

[SonjaB]

They make duct tape.....

 

[JohnTBap]

Originally posted by JasonLyons
kill the boy, hide his body and tell your daughter you havent seen him then after the trial tell Charlie Manson the dis says hi

LONG POST!!!!!!!!!

 

[bumcat]

Ouch!! Duct Tape!! Just might work though.

 

[nativetxn]

What a good person you are, Lauri. To take that young man into your home. I think finding your ex and getting to stay there might be a good idea, though.

 

[jamsmom]

I think it is absolutely wonderful that he was able to call you. My ex was abusive.

I am sending PD (and prayers) for your family and his.

 

[Serena]

I am not made of whatever it takes to leave him out there. I just couldn't do it.

Him and my dd are serious. That worries me and I was very concerned, I just didn't know what else to do. He was asleep when I left and my h came over as soon as he could. Will had been up all night walking to friend's houses trying to find someone awake. He was probably sleeping good. I hope.

This happens a lot. He bounces from him mom's house to his dad's. Occasionally, they both dump him. It makes me furious.
He had been moving into his dad's house so he could go to school. He had been working on the room for weeks trying to get it ready.


Hey Jason, I'll need some help to kill the boy. He's a lot bigger than me. If you'll help, we could do it. And when we both go see Charlie Manson, you could protect me, because you are big and strong and he's scary.