We just returned from
Disneyland Paris, where we had the absolutely WORST trading experience I have ever encountered. We were about to leave the park on our last evening, and my dd (who is 4) spotted a CM with a lanyard and wanted to trade. She immediately started looking at her lanyard to see what "traders" she had left, so she could tell the CM which pins he could choose from (we always try to let CM's have a choice of pins), and the CM said, "No, before we talk about your pins, you choose the one you want off of my lanyard." So, my dd picked a pin. Then, the CM said, "Now, let me see your lanyard so I can pick." My dd took off her lanyard, handed it to him, and said, "You can have one of these three pins." The CM began taking a different pin off her lanyard (one she had purchased). My dh said, "I'm sorry, that is not available for trading." The CM said, "No....I let you pick any pin off my lanyard, so now I get to pick any pin off of hers." Panicking, my dd tried to hand the pin back to the CM, while she was saying "Never mind...I don't want your pin." The CM avoided the pin, and exclaimed, "Sorry, too late...you chose your pin, and now I get to choose mine." Well, immediately my dd burst into tears...hysterical. Fortunately, my quick-thinking dh grabbed her lanyard from the CM, angrily told him to wait a minute, and removed all but the three "traders" from her lanyard. He then told the CM, "Fine. Pick any pin from her lanyard now." The CM scowled at my dh, and chose one of the pins.
My poor dd was SOOO shaken up by this that she said she didn't want to pin trade ever again. I was SOOO mad, so I went by Guest Relations to complain. However, the CM at guest relations, (who was in training) tried to tell me that the CM was correct, and that he should've been able to pick any pin off of my dd's lanyard. I asked if I could make a complaint against this CM, and she replied, "Well, before we will file a complaint, I will need you to have a seat while we locate the cast member so we can hear his side of the story. Did you, by chance, get his last name?" "What? Are you kidding me?," I replied. It was now 8:30pm, raining, and we had to catch the RER train back to Paris with my 4yr old. Furious, I explained to her that I was not "waiting" for her to contact an employee for whom I only had a first name, so we could hear "his side" of why my 4yr old was sobbing in her stroller!! I asked for an address where I could write instead.
In the big picture, I don't care about pin trading. Lord knows we have spent thousands of dollars on retail pins only to have my dd trade for nearly every Sedesma she comes across...I'm not sure why she likes those stupid pins so much (and yes, we have often run into cast members who will not accept them later when she decides to trade them away). But, pin trading, and the interaction with cast members that trading affords her, is one of her FAVORITE things to do at a Disney park. However, I cannot IMAGINE what sort of pleasure anyone could get by bullying a 4yr old, and then watching her cry in panic. I have NEVER reported a CM...I figure everyone has a bad day, but this guy was just mean!! I don't want to get him in "trouble", but I want him to stop and think, and hopefully never make a small child cry while pin trading again.