i feel so lost and numb right now

[Mrs.viv07]

a feww months ago i posted the best news of my life, i was having a baby, on valentine's day my world came crashing down when i was told my baby was gone
i am sorry for being a downer but so many of you were there to congratulate me i figured i could get some support now in the worse time.

as to not take up too much space here i created a blog feel free to read,comment, or whatever. I just needed and outlet.

http://vivnmichaelsworld.blogspot.com/

thanks for listening

 

[Tricia1103]

I'm so sorry for your heartache. I know the pain of losing a baby all too well and it's miserable and terrible and something I STILL think about 8 years later. Hang in there...it does get easier. (HUG)

 

[Rylee]

a feww months ago i posted the best news of my life, i was having a baby, on valentine's day my world came crashing down when i was told my baby was gone
i am sorry for being a downer but so many of you were there to congratulate me i figured i could get some support now in the worse time.

as to not take up too much space here i created a blog feel free to read,comment, or whatever. I just needed and outlet.

http://vivnmichaelsworld.blogspot.com/

thanks for listening

I am very sorry for your loss.

 

[Disflyer]

I can only imagine the pain you are feeling right now. I am very sorry for your loss. Take comfort in knowing that you are not alone in this tragedy. My prayers and sympathy go out to you and your family. I know all too well the pain of trying to start a family, DW and I have been TTC for 3+ years with well over a dozen failed IUIs and IVFs.

 

[NEVERENOUGHWDW]

I am so sorry, DH & I have had to experience this 2 times and the pain is overwhelming. Please know time does heal and right now get a strong support system and take care of yourself.

 

[kimis]

I am very sorry for the pain you are having right now! I had five miscarriages but I am mom to three wonderful sons. I always said God gave me the three children He wanted me to have here on earth and the other five are in heavon waiting for me. Take time to feel the loss and remember you aren't alone. My sons are all grown now and married to wonderful women. I have 4 granddaughters and one grandson. I love being a grandma.
One thing is for sure when you loss something you love so much you never take life for granted. I have also buried two brothers and my mom. Life is precious, make each day its best and most important make memories for yourself and those around you.
You and your family are in my prayers!

 

[Kaler131]

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Hang in there. My best friend's sister and her husband tried for YEARS and had many, many miscarriages. She even carried the last one to almost 5 months....then they were belssed with BEAUTIFUL, healthy twins! They had a boy & a girl...they just turned two this past December. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

 

[ENSOCK]

Know that you are not alone. The pain does ease but you never forget. I lost 3 but have 2 beautiful boys!

 

[Scot-n-Michelle]

I am so--- sorry and i feel your pain 8 years ago i also had a miscarriage and reading your blog brought back so- many emotions!!! you are in my thoughts and prayers - may the future bring only the best to you and your family!!!

 

[Aliceacc]

So many of us have been there at one time.

You have my most sincere sympathies!

 

[DizzDoll]

I'm so sorry for your loss. My mom had a miscarriage many, many years ago and I remember her heartache. Hang in there, we love you and are keeping you in our prayers!

 

[MAKHayes-DisneyDiva]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sending thoughts, prayers, and a little Pixie Dust your way.

 

[zippy doo dah]

I am so sorry for your loss - nothing will make your pain any easier - just know that there are many of us here who have expereinced your pain and we are here if you need to vent some more

 

[southtexasmom]

I am so sorry for your loss.

 

[I Love Pluto]

Know that we care.

 

[lovetoscrap]

Kaylajr and I extend our deepest sympathy and prayers to you and your family. Hold on to the support of family and friends and seek the love and support that you need during this time.

 

[Avalon_toon]

I am very sorry for your loss.

 

[DreamDelta]

Sending out prayers to you and your husband.

 

[MelanieRI]

Vivian,

I read your blog and I am so sorry about the loss of your baby. I hope that writing about it helps you to deal with your grief. I know it helped me a lot. I found such wonderful support on some miscarriage boards online. I will always remember those ladies for that. Remember to listen to your heart and not let good intentioned peoples' sayings get to you if it doesn't mesh with how you feel about your loss. People can say many a cruel thing thinking it is going to help, but just because it helps them doesn't mean that it helps you. I lost six pregnancies between 8 and 23 weeks before having my daughter, Allison, who is now 9. I had an autoimmune disorder called antiphospholipid antibodies and took heparin to carry DD to term. So, miracles do happen and hopefully, you will have another miracle when you try to get pregnant again and will carry the baby to term. Good-luck!

 

[DVCJones]

So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.